which way is right for go: love marrige or arrange?

India
January 18, 2007 6:05am CST
now a days we see that lot of people are like to go for love marriges but resently when i read survays on the magazine i come to know that 90% of love marriges are failed. and arrange marrige are succed about 95%, what's ur thinking
7 responses
@Hitomi (28)
• Philippines
18 Jan 07
I'll still go for love marriage, because if you are married to a person you don't love it is very easy to see all of his negative side even on the tiniest things, unlike if you married someone you love small negative doesn't matter because you will accept each and every part of your partner.
@kabella50 (309)
• United States
18 Jan 07
arranged marriages are usually done where divorce isn't an option.arranged marriages are part of a culture and divorce is not acceptable.In some of these type marriages,wives are expected to look the other way if the husband has a mistress,so I am not all that sure which is better.Marriage is something so sacred and so intimate between two people that I truly wouldn't want to ever marry again without a complete meeting of the minds,body and soul.Today and maybe it's always been,but people marry in the idiology that they should,or it's expected or before they reach a certain age.Then they really screw up and bring kids in the world with the false promise of two parents living together under one roof and experiencing true love between them.My own kids did alright after divorce,but I often wonder how their lives would had been different had their father and I had help with our problems by someone in our families who had gone through situations and remained married and in love with each other.I just think marriage should be the greatest love of all.
• Romania
18 Jan 07
:) After trying to understand what you're talking about, I have a shocking answer: Don't Get Married! Either arranged, out of love or because of the money marriages don't last. Nowadays it is a trend to divorce. I'm thinking of becoming a advocate! With so many divorces going on I might get rich in a matter of months! :) But having to choose between arranged and out of love marriages, I would definetly go for the Marriage Out Of Love option. Why ? Maybe I`m old fashioned but ... people marry each other because they love each other ... At least this is my opinion
@raj_msh (14)
• India
18 Jan 07
i think we should be get arranged marriage. If we like to somebody then we should ask to our family. If your family members are asking to marry with some body then first you should try to understand that person. about like, dislike and hobbies of that person. normally in love marriage parent are not agree with this. So after marriage if the couple face any problem their parents asked that this is your own problem, don't include in this. But in arrange marriage it also become responsibility of parents to manage it. So i am in favour of a love marriage which should be arranged by family.
• Nepal
18 Jan 07
for me arrange marriage is best.
• India
18 Jan 07
Hi. It's entirely upto you dear. If you love someone dearly you should marry that person but do not haste into a matrimony . Otherwise, you shpuld go in for arranged marriage cause its best to let your experienced parents decide, if you have no special inclination to anyone. But you should ask yourself first, and be sure, about what you want ...
@aelyus (635)
• Romania
18 Jan 07
I'm from love marrige,of course.It;s the only way to fell happy,to fell love around you,everywhere!