how it feels when you cant have a baby... =(
@suzanne_bautista (13)
Philippines
January 18, 2007 7:18am CST
i know that having a baby means a lot to every person. Regardless if its a man or a woman. But have you ever thought of it how it feels whan you really really want to have a baby but you cant have one?? Last march I was diagnosed to have an ovarian cyst on my left and right ovary. The OB-Gyne informed me that I need to get an operation. They need to remove my ovaries. And what does that mean? Simple. You cannot have a baby anymore. I already did have the operation last March 2006. The operation went well, but of course the pain was still there. I would really want to have a baby, and I will do everything to have one.
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@angelastreit (287)
• United States
18 Jan 07
My husband and I have one child right now and are trying for another one but are having the hardest time actually carrying the baby to term. I have been told that I will have a hard time and that if I have another one I will be lucky. So I know how you feel in away.
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@izathewzia (5134)
• Philippines
26 Sep 07
That's sad to hear. But who knows, science can still do something with your case. And if it fails. Your strong faith to the Noe up above is the most powerful and the right way for your wish to come true. ust keep on praying and soon your wish of having a baby will come soon. Not all declared by science remains final. It is changed most of the times by the faith a person have.
@GloomCookieLex (6073)
• United States
20 Mar 07
I honestly have no idea how you feel. My endochrinolost thinks I may have polycystic ovary syndrome, and I'm going to my Gyno nurse this week to get it checked out. But I have no idea how you feel. I would be relieved to be infertile.
@ragmama (536)
• United States
5 Mar 07
I'm so sorry. I know there's nothing anyone can say to take away that hurt.
We tried for nine months to have our daughter, and I remember it feeling like it was absolutely never going to happen. Likewise, we've been trying for more than a year now for another, and I'm in that frame of mind again. I suppose it's easier now, but it still hurts.
I hope that you're able to become a mother, somehow, very soon. What a lucky child you'll have, to be so wanted and so loved for your struggle!
@roguex (7)
• Philippines
13 Mar 07
me and my husband have been trying for almost five years now, it's so frustrating when everyone in your family keeps on asking when are we planning to have one. as if we're not really trying. it hurts when you see people you know having a baby and it hurts more when you know people who had a chance to have one and but decides not go through with it. i guess the best thing to do is pray a lot and keep mind that He has a plan for all of us..i just need to be more patient with it.
@hotmetalfreeq (30)
• United States
5 Sep 07
I'm so so sorry. Good luck with everything, I'm sure something good will happen. Baby dust to you!!!
