How open are you sexually?

@ronita34 (3922)
Canada
January 18, 2007 2:37pm CST
Are you shy when it comes down to it?? Do you get nervous about what your partner will think when he sees you neaked for the first time? Are you comfortable with your sexuality??
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@beyonce03 (2331)
• Canada
19 Jan 07
I am very open with my sexuality. I never had any problem to get naked in front of my boyfriend even the first time and even if I really don,t like my body. I can talk to him about everything. he's knows my fantasy, what I did with my ex, etc :)
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@ronita34 (3922)
• Canada
19 Jan 07
Well they say that confidence is key and you seem to be confident enough with yoruself. Good for you it proves that you two have a certain comfort zone together!!
• United States
18 Jan 07
I'm still that way and I'm married. Been married for over 17 years now and I won't make love with the lights on. Have never done it during the day either.
@ronita34 (3922)
• Canada
19 Jan 07
Wow ... Now that is shy. But that is alright because that is your choice and it obvioulsy is fine with your husband so it is all good!!
@Chapman15 (1492)
• United States
19 Jan 07
At first I think we all were! After the first few partners your confidence grows and so does your experimentation! I guess everyone knows their faults, so if you can't addcept yourself naked then you might not be comfortable the first time... I personally like the first couple encounters better, it's like having a new video game, you just want to find out more and more what they like and see where it can go!
@ronita34 (3922)
• Canada
19 Jan 07
I don't think that he meant to be rude he was just using that as a comparison to the excitement that they shared! Like riding a bike for the first time or going down a slide into a swimming pool! You are right confidence does grow after it is built up!
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• United States
19 Jan 07
You don't have much respect for intimacy, do you? Only likeing it for the newness? Saying it's like a video game? Do you even respect women as individuals?
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@mzbubblie (3839)
• United States
3 Mar 07
I can say I'm very comfortable with my sexuality and comfortable with my man. I guess at first I was rather shy being a woman, I always seem to find flaws about my body. However, he makes me feel like the sexiest woman on earth. I couldn't stand to have the lights on but he has made me totally comfortable and it actually opened my eyes that I'm going to always be my own worst critic no matter what...
@rosie_123 (6113)
3 Mar 07
I am totally comfortable with my sexuality - I think when you reach a certain age, you should be. Of course I would like to have a better body, and be more toned, ND all the rest of it, but I am not ashamed of my body, or my secual needs, and I don't embarrass easily, and I a happy that way.
• United States
18 Jan 07
It's always good to be comfortable with your own sexuality, because if you cannot do that, you won't be able to make anyone else comfortable with theirs. The key is finding someone where a mutual comfort is shared between the two of you. As for me? It's always going to be at least a little nerve-wracking when someone new is seeing you naked. Especially when you don't know too much about their past experience, because you don't know what they're silently comparing you to. Once you get lost in each other is when all the shame and nerves simply fade away...
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@ronita34 (3922)
• Canada
18 Jan 07
You are absolutely right that it seems to drift away as the passion takes over the moment. It is always a thought that is running through my head though until this moment. I always get nervous for soem reason and that me in the pink. I guess it is only human instinct!
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@canadabis1 (1953)
• Canada
19 Jan 07
I'm more open than my gf...just the way I am...and I was born in my bd suit...so why would it bother me any other time...lol
• United States
19 Jan 07
I am really shy. It has a lot to do with your upbringing. Also, I am insecure, so I get embarrased easy. But, my hubby is a trooper, and I do whatever he wants to make him happy anyways.
• India
1 Mar 07
I will be ready for this anytime .I never feel that i am nervous doing all those things with my partner.and i am comfortable with my sexuality.i can satisfied any lady which want to be with me .....any body(mean girls,lady) can try with me
@Ravenladyj (22904)
• United States
22 Jan 07
I'm extremely comfortable with my sexuality and sexually I'm fairly comfortable..I used to be brutally comfortable with it seeing how i was a stripper for 12 yrs I pretty much had to be LOL but since gaining a bit of wt after having my third child then my depression getting really bad etc I lost a little of that comfort level...once I lose the last of it and tone up though I'll bounce back no problems LOL
• United States
21 Jan 07
Not any more...I don't think I ever was ;) The man I'm with now has helped me to be more comfortable with myself naked (even more now than before) and we make love with the lights on. I'm very comfortable with my sexuality, much more so than when I was married.
@Catkin (480)
• United States
23 Jan 07
In the very beginning I was shy, but I had also never done anything at all, so everything was new. Now, I am up for trying new things and am less shy about being naked in general (hurrah!).
@ashraine (178)
• Philippines
19 Jan 07
no im not shy naked in front of my partner... we've been for 3yrs so i think that span of time is enough for me to become comfortable naked to him .. =)
@cassidy22 (2974)
• United States
2 Mar 07
I'm married so there is nothing to be shy about any more. I am a bit modest, but not around my husband. We're here to make each other happy.
@Willowlady (10658)
• United States
19 Jan 07
Am totally comfortable around any body and my body especially. Nakedness is our natural state and only our taught values make it something to cover. Now in public due to common decency we should be presentable. However with like minded or at home we should be comfortable in any state of undress. Some of the best statues I have seen from olden times are of large womanly women! Skinnyness is only a current thing and obsessive thing.