What would you do?

@raveena (1353)
India
January 19, 2007 3:28pm CST
If the person you are dating is not sure if he loves you or not but does not want to end the relationship.
13 responses
@nhingneng (131)
• Philippines
22 Jan 07
unless he is sure that he loves me i wouldn't want to have any relationship with him besides being a friend because it would be very confusing for me especially when he will find the real person who would make him happy.
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• Philippines
22 Jan 07
If you like and love the person, just be it. Go with the flow. Enjoy the moments spent together while it lasts. Who knows, one of these days you might just hear the magic words, "I LOVE YOU!".
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@ichurn (611)
• Philippines
21 Jan 07
I think it is such a waste of time. Anyway, there are other worthwhile things that can be done. Dating? No way.
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@anil_762001 (1636)
• India
22 Jan 07
raveena make clear if he is loving you or not and according to me if he is not loving you then you will not go on date with him.make new friend who loves you ......
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• India
21 Jan 07
well ur question is really very good because flirting is allaround here which is ruining the career of the young generation.it is very essential to make sure that how far and where we are going in a relationship.if your partner is not serious about the relationship than in this case it is totally westages of time,money,career everything.so one must be quit attentive while in relation. if i am not sure about my partner than i would ask that whether he is serious about the relationship or he is just doig just timepass.and also there are so many ways to test that he is serious or not.observing carefully his activities and differnt behaviour may be the way to confirm.if he is not serious about the relation than i will immediately leave .beause it is what going to be with me in future so betteer to end it as soon as possible.
@sahil49 (28)
• India
21 Jan 07
if the person i am dating is not sure about whether she loves me or not then i will think it to be my defect for which i could not show her the love in my eyes which she wanted to see and so i will try more to show her that love and i am sure she will one day see in my eyes and say that she loves me too but it takes too long time then i will accept that we are not made for each other
• United States
19 Jan 07
Kick her a$$ to the curb. If you do not know weather or not that you love mee but want a loving relationship......tell them to F*** OFF and quit wasting your time. If they cannot make up their mind they can hit the bricks!! good luck and have a great day!!
@34momma (13882)
• United States
19 Jan 07
that is such a cop out!! you don't know, how does one not know!?!?! either you do or you don't. don't let anyone one have that kind of control over your life. they don't know then you make the choice to move on
@Pekachu (1112)
• United States
19 Jan 07
then i would continue dating him but with the understanding i am still open to dating others as well .not everyone is going to love me ,they may not be ready for a serious relationship
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• India
21 Jan 07
I think this is the most vulnerable situation to handle, as i faced the situation it pains a lot, but still i am waiting for a yes from her.
@07011987 (70)
• India
21 Jan 07
hmmm..tough situation i guess..in my opinion the person shud carry on with the relation..not for tu long but comparitively say a month or two till the timehe gives himself time to ponder over the situation..if he takes tulong then his partener shud give him the ultimatum..even then he is not sure whether he loves or not..then he shud beleft n even giv hima verbal listening..thts the best way give himsumtime even thn he is not sure then execute him from ur life..
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@mom2boys (334)
• United States
19 Jan 07
well you cant just expect the person to love you if its only been a few months, how long has it been????????? Do you expect that someone has to love you after a short period of time? for some it takes a while to develop that love you want, wouldnt you rather they fall in love with you rather than you pushing them to it and leaving you, when in turn that might have been the one you were meant to be with?? think about that.
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• Canada
19 Jan 07
Hm, personally, I would evaluate how long we've been together and how much time we spend together. If it's only been a short amount of time, or not very much time is spent together, I'd give the other person some more time for their feelings to grow and get stronger. On the other hand, if it's been a long relationship and a lot of time is spent together and they're still unsure, I'd evaluate any possible future I could have with them, then probably break up with them
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