Do u easily forgive someone who has done u wrong in the past?How?

Philippines
January 19, 2007 9:07pm CST
How do u forgive someone who has hurt you and done you wrong in the past? I want to forgive a friend who had hurt me in the past....but untill now I cant seem to forgive her. HOnestly there is still this big part of me that really hates her & the bad thing about is that I dont wish her well, which worries me. A part of me wants to forget what she did and forgive her already. What do u think is the first step I should do to forget and forgive?
1 response
@abhiquest (580)
• India
20 Jan 07
I don't know why we wish to forget our past, why don't we instead take it as a lesson and accept as a reality! By seeing it as a reality, we are more matured enough to handle a similar situation at later point of time, not just with ourselves, but we can even guide others on that matter. About forgiving other, I believe, if by striking back we can get ourselves into a bigger problem then we should avoid it. We should be more focussed towards tasks at hand and how well can we improve upon our future. Forgiveness is an of the Brave as they say!