The Best time for me

Philippines
January 20, 2007 5:47am CST
It's been a long time since I don't have any communication with my ex-boyfriend then until one day he came to win me back but its too late for him because I have a boyfriend at that time.I don't even know he came but to my surprise I even hug and kiss him, by that precious time my feelings came back I feel it in my nerve, I get lost for a single minutes. I really don't know what to do? I feel the love that was lost for a long time.
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32 responses
@Deane_2005 (1644)
• Philippines
20 Jan 07
I guess you must be true to yourself. If you feel that you still love your ex boyfriend then weight things out. Assess yourself, do you feel that it is really love, is your feelings not just another emotions.But if you really feel that such guy is the person who can only give you happiness then go for it. Goodluck with your lovelife. Anyway its better to be true and honest than be sorry forever.
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• Philippines
21 Jan 07
yes wahtever will make you happy go for it...in the end what matters most is if your happy or not
• United States
21 Jan 07
This is not going to be easy for you, but you really need to look inside yourself and see what you want. Do what your heart tells you. I hope you make a good choice.
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@anne_143god (5387)
• Philippines
21 Jan 07
I think you should ask your self if you really still love your exboyfriend more than your present boyfriend for you will be unfair with him if you still be with him and yet you still have feelings with your ex boyfriend. Weigh things whom you really love more and be with that person and dont be unfair to anyone of them.
• United States
20 Jan 07
i think that if you love him it would be nice that you keep him... if he loves you too... we all don't know what is gonna happen in the future but all i know is that just pray on it and God will provide. i am sure that you want to know and God knows what is gonna happen. he might test your love for him and vice versa.... what ever happens in the future just always remember that love is wonderful! and that there is someone for you... you will always have those feelings but is it worth it? i dunno what have happened in your relationship but right now... just pray on it:)
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• United States
21 Jan 07
Think it over, its possible that you want your ex-boyfriend back... I went out with my past girlfriend a few times... but we're also kinda young... i still do miss her though. If you feel that you really love him, definitely give it another shot. Who knows, it might work great this time around.
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@jhoanee (598)
• Philippines
21 Jan 07
i think you need to reassess yourself. you should be true to what you feel. for sure it would be hard on your part specially you had a new boyfriend now but it would be a big mistake if you are living on a lie. if you do love your first boyfriend then you should have a talk to your present one. or maybe it was bec and unfinished business thats why you feel it or u just misses the one who matters to you before. dont make a rush decision analyze everything and ask pray to the LORD. im sure he will guide you. as much as possible explain everything to the one u didnt choose.
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@yorb24 (2179)
• United States
21 Jan 07
Well take some time maybe apart from both and then see where your heart lies. Don't jump into something too soon with the ex because you might be missing your current boyfriend. Good luck!
@katenkim (238)
• Singapore
21 Jan 07
then i believe that ex-bf of yours is your soulmate. if you find the wanting to have him again, without the traces of anger you feel for him, then give yourself a try
@tocika (970)
• Romania
21 Jan 07
I live something with you,but I have another boyfriend now,and my ex-boyfriend didn't meet with me in the last time,but I hope that he wouln't appear,because I have big plans with my boyfriend and maybe If I would have him in front of me I will do the same like you. I prefer to let the past at my back and to think that what it was,it was and is finished now. HAve a nice day and life!
• Philippines
21 Jan 07
Maybe your love for your ex was never lost, it had just faded. And now, will it become clearer or it will continue to fade. Whatever it is, just do what you want. :)
• Philippines
20 Jan 07
I guess what you did is just a reaction to what you felt when you saw your exboyfriend that day. Though you've broken up, the strong love you felt was still there and when you saw him, it came back. Did you have a formal closure of your relationship in the past? just wondering and why did he went away? I know you are in a difficult situation specially you have a present boyfriend. But i guess the most important thing you need to do is simply BE YOURSELF. You still love him? then go for it. You may hurt the feeling of your present boyfriend but it will hurt you more if you lose again this special someone you dearly love. Sacrifices have to make in order to be happy. since your ex-boyfriend wanted to win you back and if you wanted to be with him as well, then talk to your present boyfriend and explain to him the situation. It will really hurt him but at least you were honest about your feelings and you will be able to close your relaitonship with him without guilt. Be happy.:)
@soob78 (76)
• Pakistan
21 Jan 07
ur not over him.... thats what happend.. when u c a x.. and have a current boyfreind and feel something for ur x, ur really not committed (mentally) to ur new boyfreind and still share feelings for u x . i think u should rethink things.. so u dont end up thinking of one end being with another one that would be unfair 2 u and ur current boyfreind
@Poison86 (121)
• Bulgaria
21 Jan 07
This is a very confused situation.You should think about what do do very carefully.Your ex-boyfriend came to say "Sorry" long time since you had broken,If he loves you very much he will come sooner,not after many many days.What about your current boyfriend?Do you love him?I had the same case long time ago,but prefered to be with my present boyfriend.
• India
21 Jan 07
you should choose the right person because u have to spend whole life with him.................
@wasim989 (2298)
• India
21 Jan 07
I don't think you should go back to your previous boyfriend because it is wrong morally and if you really love him and he really want to be with you then you should break up with your current boyfriend but if you like your current boyfriend very much then don't let your past feelings come between you.
@Aexcomp (121)
• Romania
21 Jan 07
Maybe you should try to forgive him. Because that's what people do frogive each other. Just a simple idea :).
@abednego7 (1060)
• Philippines
21 Jan 07
You must be true to yourself but must be responsible enough to tell the situation on your current boyfriend. You should explain him in most kind way that you still have a feeling to your ex-boyfriend, somehow if he really loves you he will give your freedom and will let you reconcile with your ex-boyfriend.
• United States
21 Jan 07
Well, first of all, have some integrity and admit to your boyfriend what you did. You DON'T kiss other dudes when you have a boyfriend, capiche? Second, break it off with him, because it's obvious you can't handle yourself in a relationship if you're running around kissing other guys. Give me a break. Do you just let life wash over you like a tidal wave, or are YOU the one in control? I know the answer to that just from reading your post.
• Philippines
21 Jan 07
you know its hard to deal with someone your not over with. be responsible for your feelings, you might hurt a lot of people by thius time. but take in consideratuon about the feeling of ur present bf. be true to urself if you feel that u will be hapi with ur ex do it ryt now dont let the agony of ur present bf be prolong
@vnssmart5 (182)
• India
21 Jan 07
yup thats a good experience ...... if u have any misundertstandings with ur bf y u left and chosen another .. wat i think is love only one and die for him only one ..... no one should again enter in to ur mind k