All About Love

Philippines
January 20, 2007 10:40am CST
I friend of mine quoted today : " If you can't have the one you love, then love the one you have. " Do any of you believe in this saying? Any opinions on this?
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5 responses
• Canada
20 Jan 07
I don't really believe that. The words "then love the one you have" would imply that you have some choice in the matter. I don't believe that you can choose to love someone, but that it just happens.
• Philippines
20 Jan 07
Well, you might not have a choice in who you do love, but you can 'try' to make yourself love the person you're with, right? Or maybe start with liking that person first, then who knows, it might grow into love.
• Canada
20 Jan 07
I think you can spend time with that person and try to forget about your love for another and in doing that you might find yourself falling in love with the person your with.
@ms_fery (251)
• Philippines
20 Jan 07
i agree, why waste a time loving that person while you can have them, while there are someone near you ready to return your love.
• Philippines
20 Jan 07
Hahaha. I told my friend that too. It is better to try and reciprocate the love you are getting than to hope for something you might never have. Easier said than done though, I think. ;)
• India
20 Jan 07
That's really good thought but i have my love ...
@vinoth_123 (1876)
• India
20 Jan 07
It's one of dialog in tamil movie (Valli) In this my opinion is i agree with this dialog. Have a nice day.
• Romania
20 Jan 07
it's easy to say but so hard to do...I am in this situation and I just can't get ridd of the painful thought that i can't be with the one I want... Maybe it'll work for you...
• Philippines
20 Jan 07
I agree with it being hard to do since you can't really dictate what your heart wants. :)