fathers!!!!!!!!!!!
By hotuko
@hotuko (29)
Philippines
January 20, 2007 10:40pm CST
i am member of broken family! my father left as when im 15 years old and he came back when im 16 one year ago he left us again without anything! we started with nothing! that time we cannot eat 3 times a day it is good when we have one! when i turn 17 he came back and trying to convince us he will not do it again! and we believe in his promise and we forgave him in 3rd times! a month ago he left us again! without anything again! me and my siblings are forcely to stop studying and its hard for me i have a dream that i want to fulfill!!! now that im 18 tell me my father convincing us again to forgive him! tell me do i have to for give him in the 4th times!!
3 responses
@hmike_d (1529)
• Philippines
22 Jan 07
you need to know the reasons why he keep on leaving you... is it with a third party? or he became irresponsible. Depending on the gravity of his reasons, don't forget that he is your father and you are the one who could decide how you could handle this situation. Lemme ask you a question, when your father left, what did you feel? did your life became miserable? At this point, you could realize, do you still need him? or its just ok for you if he leave because you can now stand on your own feet......
@hotuko (29)
• Philippines
22 Jan 07
all i feel is i hated him i hated him when his arguing to my mother! when he shouting to me and my siblings! when he spending his money to his girl and nothing left to us i hated him when my mother and siblings eating just a sardines while he and his girl eating delicious food when he always left us with nothing
@msmamaof2 (367)
• United States
21 Jan 07
YOU NEVER HAVE TO FORGIVE HIM. YEAH, HE'LL ALWAYS BE YOUR FATHER. BUT COME ON....WHAT A CRAPPY PERSON TO DO THAT TO HIS FAMILY.
ANYONE CAN BE A FATHER BUT IT TAKES A REAL MAN TO BE SOMEONE'S DAD!
@puma_nz (999)
• New Zealand
21 Jan 07
No you dont have to put up with it I can give you that.. But in saying that.. You will have to be alot stronger and tell him to BUGGAR off!!! That may men harder work.. But he will only do it to you again and again.. He is a failure as a Father and Husband.. You need to show him and yourself that you are 1000000 times the Man he will ever be!!! and that you and your family dont need him. Its harsh but its true.
