What i m gng to do whn ur gone????

January 21, 2007 2:15am CST
If sumone hurts u, or betrays u,or breaks ur heart,wht would u do??? would u lyk to take revenge or forget and forgive them coz thy hav helped u learn abt trust and the importance of being cautious to whom u open ur heart... or u keep loving them in hope that one day he/she would return..... UR INGENUOUS COMMENTS R IMPORTANT....!!!!!
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@cuddleme01 (2727)
• Philippines
23 Jan 07
people - lovers in love
being hurt is really a sad experience. it happens to everyone and we all have varied ways to deal with pain. being hurt can sometime create a monster in us that we want to take revenge in the effort to ease the pain by seeing the person who gave us the pain suffer. this is understable because we are humans but this is not tolerable. to avenge ourselves because we are hurt is not justified. revenge only makes us not different from the one who inflicted pain is us. forgiving is hard. let time heal our wounds and let GOD above punish the bad things other people do to us. i used to take revenge when someone wrongs me but i learned it only causes me to be more and more like that person. it is okay to keep loving the person and hope for his return but you should assess the situation before you decide to pursue loving the person continue your hopes.