should i still love you and just forget everything? or should i forget you?

Japan
January 21, 2007 6:40pm CST
i have love someone so much. something along the way happened and he hurt me badly. what he did was so painful that i even attempted to do suicide. then some part of me tells me that i still love this person. should i forgive him and continue my relationship with him? should i continue loving him in spite of the fact that he hurt me morally and i am still carrying the pain?
4 responses
@sindai (204)
• Canada
27 Jan 07
I was in the same situation. I was hurt extremely badly. But you know what....friends and family are the best support ever. It's great if you have a pet too! Get your a** out there and do something interesting. take a yoga class, some kind of workshop...volunteer for events, hang with friends....write a song, some poetry. You will get through this. You're not alone. Everyone experiences this pain at least once in their life. you just have to pick yourself up and move on. There are many fish out there. I have yet to find another, but hey...I'm okay! You have to love yourself before you can love another and for that person to love you too. You have to get rid of this hurt, meet someone and make sure that this hurt doesn't become baggage.
• Japan
27 Jan 07
yes, you are really right.it just takes time to heal.anyways, little by little i'm trying to put the broken pieces of me together again. yeah, i have learned so many things from what happened. and hearing from people like you helps alot.Thankz for the very nice response i really appreciate it.
@starboy (119)
• Pakistan
27 Jan 07
well i think the better way is to move farward,cuz now hi is with an other woman,he has no feeling for u,so y should u waist tour precious time in thinking about a betrayal? so the world is full of funn! enjoy every moment of ur life. good luck
• Japan
27 Jan 07
yeah..you are right.but i think it really takes time to heal a wound.thankz for the advice i really appreciate it.
@smughal (1026)
• Pakistan
25 Jan 07
well my advice wud be.. if he hurts u intentionaly then its better to move forward.
• Japan
25 Jan 07
yeah..it is really intentional i think.thanks i really value your advice.
@steerforth (1797)
• Italy
25 Jan 07
I don't know, it dipends about what he did to you. Listen to your heart, it's the better thing...
• Japan
25 Jan 07
he lied and another woman is involved. it's kinda depressing you loved the person as much as you can then what i got in return is betrayal.