patience when your fionce kiised with another girl

Indonesia
January 22, 2007 7:49am CST
exactly my fionce kissed another woman and i saw that.and that happend after 2 hours we enggagedment.damn i really so sad. but i dont know i forgive him. because he said nothing happend between him and her. what must i do? i believe it or not? what your suggestion?
2 responses
@Deane_2005 (1645)
• Philippines
24 Jan 07
Just be cautious.Men tends to play with any girls as they could. Anyway they are men ,they can fool around, but with regards to what you have seen , I would like you to open your eyes and ears about your boyfriends behavior. That kiss might be a sort of social kiss only.Did your boyfriend knew that your in that place were the girl kiss him. Coz if he knows that am pretty much sure that he will never show you his infedility , unless obcourse he doesnt know that your around. Talk to your boyfiend, if he tends to marry you then let that circumstances be left out. Trust is very important in a relationship and don't ruin your engagement by a simple kiss which you don't even know if its with malice. Just open all your senses. If you can find out your boyfriend is doing something wrong then that's the time you act on this matter.
@egisugiri (843)
• Indonesia
24 Jan 07
I'm sorry to hear that.That's a sad story of you. Having the one that we love betrayed us. You must make sure that what you see is not ordinary kiss like "friendly kiss" or "social kiss". If you are sure that's not looking like that, you should break up with him. Something like this if you let it go can make you hurt. This can happen again. This is a man do if you let us and forgive us for what we did tou you. Better hurt now to get happines later. May you be blessed by god above with lots of happines and love.