I have a feeling tht my wife is in love my brother

Relationship - Boy & Girl Relationship
@44244N (98)
India
January 22, 2007 5:47pm CST
I am not very sure of this. But when they are together, the way they behave makes me feel. I do not know whether to speak to my brother or my wife about this. How should I approach this topic.
5 responses
cheenlly
@cheenlly (3477)
• Philippines
23 Jan 07
To answers your doubt. Talk with your brother nicely. YOu dont know maybe its just your feeling. MAybe they are really close like they friends. BUt to settle everything and to make your mind at peace and erase your doubts then talk to you brother. not on your wife she will just feel mistrust if its not true.
44244N
@44244N (98)
• India
23 Jan 07
My only concern is that if what I think is not true, it will affect my relationship with my wife. Its incorrect to suspect someone like this. I don't think talking it out with either would resolve the issue. It might simply flare up.
pilbara
@pilbara (1436)
• Australia
22 Jan 07
I wouldn't confront them but I agree you do need to know. It sounds like you need to talk with your wife. My approach would be to take a soft approach, no accusations, no yelling, no arguing. Work out what you want to say ahead of time, tell her what you are seeing and how it makes you feel. I take it your wife does not act this way with anyone else?
44244N
@44244N (98)
• India
23 Jan 07
No she does not. Thanks for the approach.
mzbubblie
@mzbubblie (3839)
• United States
23 Jan 07
I believe you should speak to your wife before your brother, at least give her a chance, it's a sticky situation because your blood, your brother is also important. Being married and living together speak to her and tell her how you feel about the situtaion and hopefully it clears up any feelings you may have...
chumm525
@chumm525 (169)
• Philippines
22 Jan 07
dont jump into conclusion first, you should investigate first, or if you really want to find it out, you should talk to your wife about your observation and you can ask her about your total standing to your relationship, if you had the guts to talk to both of them go ahead to know the real situation, after you know it, it is the time when you have to decide and ask your wife who she really love between you and your brother, if she answers it is your brother it the time for you to move on and search for the better future to face....
chumm525
@chumm525 (169)
• Philippines
22 Jan 07
dont jump into conclusion first, you should investigate first, or if you really want to find it out, you should talk to your wife about your observation and you can ask her about your total standing to your relationship, if you had the guts to talk to both of them go ahead to know the real situation, after you know it, it is the time when you have to decide and ask your wife who she really love between you and your brother, if she answers it is your brother it the time for you to move on and search for the better future to face....