Awake or asleep during labor?

@jessmtiu (251)
Philippines
January 22, 2007 8:27pm CST
Would you like to be awake or asleep during labor? I personally wanted to be awake the whole time, but my anesthesiologist decided it would be too traumatic for me to hear the clanging of the metal instruments while they were repairing my incision, that he decided to put me to sleep right after the baby was delivered. I still saw my baby after he was cleaned and checked. He was such a beauty. Ü
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@nypage (157)
• United States
23 Jan 07
I was offered an epidural very early in labor and declined it, but I asked for IV medicine to help with the pain. I don't remember what they gave me, but I was OUT! From 11am til 9pm I was out cold. My husband said I was awake each contraction, but I don't remember that at all. I woke up when they suggested the epidural, but was very loopy from the IV medication. If I have another baby, I'll definitely remember not to ask for anything until I'm about ready to deliver. As for being put to sleep without my consent, I would sue for malpractice. I don't feel that's a valid reason to be put to sleep without your consent. If you've requested something like that, it's one thing. But for him to do it while you wished to remain awake..that's not right.
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@Ithink (9980)
• United States
24 Jan 07
I have had 7 children 6 pregnancies. I was awake for the labor of all of them until they knocked me out for an emergencty C-section for number 4 and 5. Either way I think that whatever way you have to get thru it is fine. In the end I think we all want the same thing, healthy babies to hold and cherish.
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• United States
23 Jan 07
I have three children and I was awake for all of them. I can not imagine not seeing and felling everything that happen that day. But if for some reason my DR thought it was best for me to be asleep than I would have to trust in what he said. The doctors job is to make sure that the mother and baby is delivered safly.
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@limosonia1 (1559)
• United States
23 Jan 07
I would rather be awake. I had a c section when I was totally put out and I missed so much. Now refuse to be put to sleep. Plus I always get really sick when they put me all the way under. Congradulations on the new baby!!!!!!
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• United States
23 Jan 07
I wasn't put to sleep with my c-section, but I might as well have been...the spinal had made me so drowsy that everything is a blur and I was pretty incoherent anyway. Furthermore, because it was surgery, I didn't get to get her until hours later...they only showed her to me-which is a blur too.
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• United States
23 Jan 07
i was awake for the whole thing stiching me up and all.. i had an emergancy c-section but still i dont think its right that they put you out because its to traumatic...it didn't affect me at all it took forever to get me closed up and at the end i started to feel them stiching but i told them and they gave me more morphine but i was happy i was awake i even have a friend that watched her's threw a mirror now im not sure if i could handle that but i wanted to be awake because my mom and boyfriend would tell me what was going on with my baby and my boyfriend brought him right to me after they were done with him! i was so happy when i first saw him over the curtain i just started crying! tears of joy of course but still!
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@nishanity (1650)
• India
23 Jan 07
well i guess if you had a natural birth then you would have been awake during your labor... anyways i doubt if anyone was awake when they were having a caesarian delivery... its just not possible dearie.... the pain would have been too much to bear... its better this way!
@mkirby624 (1598)
• United States
23 Jan 07
"anyways i doubt if anyone was awake when they were having a caesarian delivery... its just not possible dearie" I may be reading this wrong, but everyone I know who has had a c-section has been awake during it. Everytime I've watched A Baby Story, the mothers have been awake. The midsection is numbed from the epidural and other medication, but I haven't never known anyone who was put to sleep during their c-section.
@Stephanie5 (2946)
• United States
23 Jan 07
Wow, I can't believe that they put you to sleep AFTER you delivered, I think that is odd. I had my first four natural with no pain meds, and the last one (my girl) I had to have emergancy c-section and I was awake through all that too! I'd rather be awake so I know what is going on!
@mkirby624 (1598)
• United States
23 Jan 07
Wow!! Kudos to you! 4 all natural births with no pain meds!! BRAVO! *CLAPS*
@crystal8577 (1466)
• United States
23 Jan 07
I have had 3 c-sections. They have never even offered to put me to sleep. I think I would rather be awake ayways though. I know I was really tired the last time. If they would ahve stopped talking to me I think I would have gone to sleep all on my own.
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@armywifey (883)
• United States
23 Jan 07
I have had 3 children and I was awake with every one of them. I can't imagine going to sleep while in labor of delivering. Who does this? I know I want to see every second of delivering my baby and to know the exact moment she is brought into the world.
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@armywifey (883)
• United States
23 Jan 07
I have had 3 children and I was awake with every one of them. I can't imagine going to sleep while in labor of delivering. Who does this? I know I want to see every second of delivering my baby and to know the exact moment she is brought into the world.
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@wdiong (1815)
• Singapore
24 Jan 07
I was wide awake during the birth of my 2 children. I opted for natural childbirth without the use of epidural. I was given the gas mask but it didn't really help much in reducing the pain.Then when I thought I can't take the pain any much longer ,my baby is out. Phew!
@bri_raj (10)
• India
23 Jan 07
we should slep fpr a certian time as the drs. advice......i think this is quite healthy..........as much as u sleep as much u reamin healthy.....thankx
• United States
23 Jan 07
You should read the topic. And ANSWER accordingly. Geeze fella. READ I've personally not given birth yet. But When I do I hope I'm awake.
@mykajosh (148)
• Philippines
24 Jan 07
i wanna be awake
@Sarah1977 (495)
• United States
23 Jan 07
I have given birth "naturally", to 4 children. I was completely AWAKE during the labor, delivery, and aftermath for each one. My doctor, who happens to be a woman, sang the entire song of "Happy Birthday" to each of my children as soon as they entered this world. I also got to hold and snuggle all of my babies immediately after pushing them out, even before the "cord" was cut. I don't really understand your doctor's way of thinking....you had already given birth, which is the hardest part. Why on earth did he put you to sleep when you were already over the most difficult part?
@plantit1 (297)
• United States
23 Jan 07
Back 30 years ago women didnt have a choice about the matter. We were all knocked out. They called it twilight sleep where your really awake to push when they tell you to but you eventually fall asleep and wake up after its over not remembering a thing. I remember my first labor pain and told them right away, give me the shot!
• United States
24 Jan 07
Sleep during labor? I have never heard such thing. They just give you an injection to numb the area they are going to stich and that does it. I would never want to sleep during labor.
• United States
24 Jan 07
I had my first labor and delivery experience in August of 2002. I was in labor for 23 hours and ended the entire process with an emergency c-section. I was awake for the process, but I wish I had been put to sleep because I felt everything. People tell me that I shouldn't have felt anything, but the anesthesiologist said that I would feel tugging and pulling. I don't know about you guys but the last thing that I wanted to feel was tugging and pulling. I have delayed having any more children because I now have a big fear of having a repeat of last time. The only way that I would have more children is that I was asleep for the entire process.
@katty0004 (386)
• United States
23 Jan 07
I was awake during mine , I didn't lay in labor a long time either, some women lay in labor a long time, I feel sorry for them , I had one lady next to all she could do was yell and scream , they finally gave her some to quieten her down ,man did it scare me .
• United States
23 Jan 07
i would like to be awake during the actual delivery but probably not during the other part because it could have been traumatic for me too maybe