What will u do if u find ur husband in d mall or public place with someone else?

@sechsey (1836)
Canada
January 22, 2007 10:26pm CST
What will u do if u find your husband or wife in the mall with someone else? Maybe just having lunch or perhaps walking around the mall. What is ur reaction?
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@emquinsat (1059)
• Philippines
23 Jan 07
I'll approach them and introduce myself. You never should react negatively coz you never know what the real score is.
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@sechsey (1836)
• Canada
24 Jan 07
Plus if u react negatively, its kind of a bad impression to the girl, and to ur relationship. It will show how much u dont trust ur husband too right?
• United States
23 Jan 07
I would not do or say anything at that moment if he did not see me. I would ask him some things pertaining to his day to see if he is trying to hide it from me. If he doesn't then you had nothing to worry about in the first place. But if he does then you should tell him you saw him and see what his reaction and excuse is. Find out the truth. Don't assume anything.
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@sechsey (1836)
• Canada
24 Jan 07
Key sentence was not to assume anything. I guess I too would wait later in the day when he opens up to me about his day's events. :)
• United States
23 Jan 07
If my husband was walking around the mall with someone we know and trust I wouldn't have a problem with it. BUT if he was walking around the mall with someone I don't know, and it was a woman and he met her somewhere and never told me about her, then this would be CHEATING and I would through his butt out. NO one wll be cheating on me, that is one thing I am totally against and do NOT believe in.
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@jenalyn (675)
• United States
23 Jan 07
I know my man well enough to know that if he is with someone that I don't know about, then it is someone he will tell me about when he gets home. If he doesn't mention it, I would tell him I was at the mall. I wouldn't accuse him of anything, but I would amke my own opinion on whether his reponse was the truth or not. If I thought it was a lie, I would start asking questions.
@sechsey (1836)
• Canada
24 Jan 07
Pretty good way to deal with things. Until ur husband lie about what happened in his day, I guess we should just keep our opinion to ourselves. When he does lie, Il freak out. Kidding :)
@mansha (6301)
• India
23 Jan 07
I would just go and jopin him and surprise him. He may be escorting the lady officially, how would I know unless I meet her. Why immeditely jump to conclusions, if its offiocial I may excuse myself and go ahead with my shopping, else we all could have a good time qt the mall, if she is just an old friend he met for lunch.
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@sechsey (1836)
• Canada
28 Jan 07
That's right. :) Just always remain cool about things and never react too quickly about stuff. If it wasnt anything about business and then maybe you can even join them as well. :)
@cheenlly (3483)
• Philippines
29 Jan 07
if they are just having lunch and just walking and not being sweet or holding hands i will not freak out of pain. BUt if i saw them very sweet and holding hands of course that is cheating. Of course i will be really shocked and hurt.
@sechsey (1836)
• Canada
29 Jan 07
I agree to that. If he and the girl does not appear to be anything but friends or business clients , then it's same to just be cool about it.
@aksagi (413)
• India
29 Jan 07
Well its a panic situation.... discuss in the walls of the home... being trusty its a case might be helping out a colleague or a friend in some help needy condition.... whats wrong if she went with a friend but its unfair on first instinct to me.
@aroraasr (428)
• India
29 Jan 07
If I find my husband anywhere with someone else, obviously I will be shocked for a moment but I wont say anything to him at that place rather would try to leave that place asap. And when he will be back home, I will try to find out who was she and what they were doing together there.