HELP!! My Daughter in Law is a Scheeming GOLD DIGGER!!!!

as always, words of wisdom from you ossie16d. You have helped me take a step back from the situation and I will follow your advice. I think it is the best course of action. I am willing to maintain a relationship with her for the sake of my son. I hope they do not have children! But if they do I want to see my grandchildren so I will continue to bite my tongue. My husband and I had even considered approaching our son and making a deal with him....divorce her and we will help clear up his debt load. I can't remember that last time he truly looked happy. I think he sees the end comming and if they do divorce we will be their to pick him up and dust him off. The rest of my daughters in law are amazing but they see what is happening as well. Now I regret having my cats neutered and spayed. LOL I'll have to find some breeders!!!!!

Because I cannot help myself AskAlly I will add that if your son and the SGD do separate, then whisk him down to a good Solicitor/Lawyer immediately, so he can file for a divorce. Pay the money for the divorce directly to the legal people and not your son, as that way she cannot get anything from it. LOL Oh and here is a true story, which I think you will appreciate. Many years ago b-i-l's wife left him which in general was no sad loss because she was a right proper B1TCH. However a couple of days before she left him, she went down to one of the big furniture places and ordered all this furniture to be delivered on a certain day. It arrived after b-i-l had left for work, unloaded from the truck and half an hour later, a removal truck arrived and took it all. Yep she absconded with all the money and left him with these huge debts. M-I-L immediately changes Will leaving b-i-l's share in trust for his children and not him, and had several provisos about when they could get trust money etc. Now I do have to say that B1TCH had been gone about 6 weeks before we saw bil because we lived in different states, but he was a changed man - changed for the better that is. Anyway after a few years, she eventually went for property settlement and maintenance for the children, and that was the first heard of her for about 3 years. Also got a divorce. The judge ordered that b-i-l had to sell the house and pay her half of the proceeds of the sale, after the mortgage was paid out. Also he gave b-i-l 12 months to do this because b-i-l said he was still renovating and needed the time. So what does b-i-l do but immediately remortgage the place, pay 2 months repayments in advance and nothing more. He eventually left the house voluntarily some 8 months later and about 6 months after that the bank sold it up. Certainly he got nothing, but nor did she. LOL Hope that gives you some hope my friend and just get some more cats, which will solve that problem. LOL Thanks very much for giving me best response for this discussion.

I don't want to sound like a snob, because we are far from being millionares. But this ranch has been in the family for just over 100 years. All the girls signed a pre nup. I am not having this place divided because some snot nosed chicky pooh decides she wants a divorce. Besides their house is on my land...... nanna nanna pooh pooh. As you can tell I am always in a generous mood when it comes to her.

I really do want to slap her silly. I have a hard time keeping my mouth shut when she is redecorating my house within earshot of me. I have 4 other boys, so how she figures she gets it all is beyond me. I may have to sit her down before I make the front page headlines if you know what I mean. lol

It's hard to be patient, but I know I have to be for my son's sake