love and arranged marraige

India
January 23, 2007 8:28am CST
Haiiiiiiii to all I have a big doubt, i think people around the world can clear my doubt... In this generation , will love marraige or arranged marraige suit our youths ... i think this will be going in everyone's mind, even in married ones, as, my life would have been better "if i would have chosen love marraige or if i would chosen arranged marraige"..... can anyone give a better option to me.....
1 response
• United States
23 Jan 07
I think our children should marry for love, but also let us get to know their partners first and ask our opinion. Sometimes, the parents can tell if the person is right for their son or daughter being outside the relationship. I know I am going to be watching my children's decisions to protect them. I can't help it, I'm a mother of four and would love for them to be happy instead of them making a bad choice for their life.
• India
23 Jan 07
thats great madam......if every parent has this mentality , then no one will make their parents to feel about their childrens future.....youths really need a helping hand from their parents
• United States
24 Jan 07
I always try to give my advice to my children. Thank goodness they are still young right now. I have told them what to expect from a good relationship. They always say they want one when they grow up like their father and I have now. They learn sometimes from just watching.