What would you do if your love one already loves someone else...

@arkana (48)
Philippines
January 23, 2007 10:32am CST
Will you still pursue what your feelings for him/her or will you stop before you get hurt? Is there even a bit chance to make it in favor for you or just forget the feelings you have...somehow its kinda hard. Any tips to get his/her attentions.
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• Malaysia
5 Apr 07
do u really want his attentions. well darling, in love u can be selfish sometime. people doesn't know what they need until the time they loosing it. i've two solution here for u. 1) How to get rid or the feelings let me tell u this way. U go to this one restaurant that u like it very much.... it's cooking... can make u wonder. U love he cooking there. until one day ur friends recomend u to this restaurant that she love very much. u go there n u fell to it to. from that time being u follow ur friend to that restaurant almost all the time. what happen to the restaurant that u loved before. emmmm mybe u go there sometime, but not most of the time... until the restorant closed n u never has a chance to go there anymore. Did u get my msg in the story, huhuhuhu... let me xplain. when u a crazy for some one, ur eyes will be closed for EVERYbody else. until someone or something came up to u telling u that there's someone more better than him that u can really hope for. Sure u will not forget the one that u admire the most, but time will do it's stuff as what it's done to us. just look at our age... it's added from year to year ! huhuhuhu. my suggestion... find a hobby.... thing that u really like. BUT please don't do ur hobby alone. be it with friends. from now one don't let most of ur time alone an alert. i mean.. the only time u can be alone is sleeping, but if u can be with friends while u sleeping is the best. do a pillow talk with ur friends. sound crazy... but it will help u the most. i bet u must heard the word of laughter is the best medicine... well friends is the best pain killer. ;) 2) How to get his attention. Just join him on what ever he do. like what ever he like. smile when he smile. talk when he talk (don't talk first, let him do the initiate). do be over. just be prety ;) stay to that.... and he will maybe asking for a dinner with u... huhuhuhu ! Good luck on ur choice.... the first or the second one... but i think u would rather choose that secodn one like all my lady friends... huhuhuhu !
• Philippines
30 Jan 07
True love is not selfish. When you you love someone, his/her happines is foremost in your mind. I'd say that just let him/her go. I am sure that someone more worthy of you will come along.
• Philippines
24 Jan 07
maybe i just let go. i know when i saw him happy i am also happy. maybe his not the best for me so i just wait for mine. god will give the best for us so wait for a moment maybe the next day i meet my prince charming. ^_^