Do you think you should do it before or after you get married?

Love :) - Before or after?
Romania
January 23, 2007 12:30pm CST
I think that you should do it before you get married. I know that some religious fanatics will say that I'm wrong, but I still have this opinion. You will get experience from the other people and will learn new stuff. What do you think?
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7 responses
• Pakistan
24 Jan 07
If it's about marriage, if you love her then it really doesn't matter to do it before or after. Obviously for fun it's always great to have it without marriage.
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@anyutza (138)
• Romania
24 Jan 07
I believe that one should do it before he got married cause maybe they don`t match to this chapter and it`s well to know this before the marriage.I don`t know maybe I`m wrong,but I don`t wanna get dissapointed after:p.and if you have a relationship who last for some couple of years,do you resist until the marriage?Or maybe one of them should be experimented
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@doncris (637)
• Romania
24 Jan 07
I think it's the best way to go, too. But some may want to "preserve" themselves for their true love or may have restrictions based upon their social, religious, etc life. You might want to know though, what you are dealing with, before you get into "serious business" like marriage.
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• Philippines
24 Jan 07
I'm not a religious fanatic but I don't think people should "get" experience from other people to "learn" new stuff. It all sounds so clinical. Making love has been reduced to a commodity and that's the sad truth. We're not animals who just get it on when the itch is there. Let's put dignity back, shall we? Let's choose our partner carefully. Let's not exploit the wonderful thing that is making love. The act has been reduced to nothing but an act. But if there are few people who still see its sacredness, then love is still alive after all. Love and commitment are two requisites before making love, that certainly is non-negotiable to me.
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@limcyjain (3523)
• India
23 Jan 07
dont quite agree with you i think one should be a proud possesion of his partner only. this is what you must be expecting from your partner. So be wise and wait for your marriage and then enjoy.
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@zack_3004 (1210)
• Malaysia
23 Jan 07
we are married - Married is Nice
i think we should do it after get married. it is not good practice do it before married.
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@msqtech (15226)
• United States
24 Jan 07
I think that the experience would be different before then after marriage and we should be careful not to ruin our experience early and make it hard to have a true experience later in life