How will you break off with your partner?

Philippines
January 23, 2007 8:52pm CST
How will you tell to your bf/gf that you don't want to continue your relaitonship anymore?
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5 responses
• China
12 Feb 07
i will let him know that I don't like him.but I will not say it straight
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• Philippines
13 Feb 07
then how will you say it if you cant say it straight from him or her?
• Philippines
12 Feb 07
It is really difficult to break up with your partner. But things will only get worse if one of the party is not in harmony with the relationship. You better talk to him/her regarding that matter right away. Tell him/her straight to the point. Don't move around the bush because it will only make things more complicated. Make it as early as possible so that the pain will be taken away in a fast phase. Never leave bad words against each other. Part ways in a very diplomatic way. Talk to each other with sense. Dont make the break up go under argument. While having the talk, listen to your partner attentively. Pay attention to what he/she is saying. In your part, explain your personal reasons why you want to end your relationship. Be logical and reasonable enough to raise your side. Never break up through text, email or other medium. Settle the break up personally, as in face-to-face. Suggest to reduce your realtionship to friendship. After all, you share some time together before. Maybe, being friends is not hard thing to do. Unless, you are not totally recovered. That is my point of view.
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• Philippines
13 Feb 07
yes your right...i see your point and its nice to be separate as friends still..thanks....
@manmaxman (850)
• India
2 Feb 07
it is very diffical to break off
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• Philippines
12 Feb 07
yeah true! thanks
@brew2x (3094)
• Philippines
11 Feb 07
There's definitely no easy way to break somebody's heart. I'll just be as honest as I could possibly be.
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• Philippines
12 Feb 07
Hard to be honest first on your self because even your mind says you dont like the person because his not worth for your love and trust but the heart says you can't live with out him...
@ynNeHj (18)
• Philippines
12 Feb 07
i will talk to him, then tell him stright that i think this relationship will not work so we better off as friends.. Thre someone out there much better than me who will worth your love and whom you really deserved, And i think that one is not me..But i really really thank you for all the love and care you gave to me.. its very long, anyway, thats how i broke up with my boyfriend.. hehe..
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• Philippines
13 Feb 07
oh ic...and it works i guess now your happy already...