a friend in trouble

@fabwisp (1328)
January 24, 2007 1:19am CST
My friend has a dillema and I'm not sure if I've given her good advice. Basically she has got friendly with her best mates ex partner. I have told her it's ok being friends with the guy but anything else is wrong. You dont get involved with a friends ex especially if they have kids. Fair enough they have been seperated for a long time but it just seems wrong to me. Am I being unfair or do you agree?
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@michele609 (1687)
• United States
27 Jan 07
I agree with you 100 percent it is just a no no, no matter how long they have been broken up. The reason being because there might still be some old feelings left over and she should not take that chance. That will consider her not a true friend!
@wmaharper (2316)
• United States
25 Jan 07
I agree. I think you are just asking for trouble when you get involved with one of your friends ex's especially when children are involved!! SHe needs to stop seeing the guy and if she doesn't think she can, she needs to cut off the friendship for awhile as well. She also better tell her friend what's going on and talk to her about it. Her friend will be heartbroken if she finds out from someone else and the damage may be too great to repair.