IWhat if you find your girlfriend is cheating on you?

@humaaaa (1387)
Pakistan
January 24, 2007 1:29pm CST
If you find out your girl friend or boy friend also has some other boys/girls except you, will you feel bad or not? what will be your reactions and how will you deal with the situation?
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22 responses
@aksagi (413)
• India
27 Jan 07
Show them the Door as they are not trustworthy n let they know with the time coming further that they are wornd doers not we. Relation is based on trust n loyalty for each other upto a certain limit if somebody hurts ur sentiments n feelings they should be said to GO AWAY
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@msqtech (15226)
• United States
1 Feb 07
you are so right we each deserve someone who wants to devote to us and our family that we can have together not a cheater
• India
25 Jan 07
as soon as i find out that she is cheating on me , first i will confirm that and have a spy on her then as soon as it is confirmed i will her to F*** her a** off and will straight away go into a search of a new girl friend. i would also like to tell her that there r many more beautiful girls than you and that will be it a complete break up , she will ebe with any other guy and thats the same for me.
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• India
3 Feb 07
i'll do the same thing
• United Arab Emirates
27 Jan 07
obviously i wil feel bad and leave him just like i did:) my ex- lied aroung n stuff n i got rid of him
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@xelissa (777)
• New Zealand
4 Feb 07
He's the one whose cheating not me, do I have a reason to feel bad? I am who I am and if I'm not good enough for him that's not my problem, if he is cheating on me, I know I fell in love with the wrong person and back out before I get too emotionally attached. It's just another part of life, I'll just live with it and move on and take is as another experience of life
@Jadoon (177)
• Pakistan
3 Feb 07
I don't have any girlfriend yet.... SO i don't know what to do........ But i can..told you......... If you become my gf.......... Hwz that idea.......
@vickyl (54)
• India
3 Feb 07
its completly depend on u,i mean how u trust u r partner and the same time he or she had belive in u.u have u look in either way,like suppose he or she have boy and gals frnd then u may also have the same.u have to see how he is behaving,how much importace is he or she giving u,and if u find any wrong then ask straight fwd,listen him or her carefully then u take the step.o.k but remember one thing "is duniya mein shak ka koi illaz nahi hain"...........
@msqtech (15226)
• United States
1 Feb 07
I would have to get rid of a cheating girlfriend and I would feel bad but get over it and move on
@rajarani (106)
• India
26 Jan 07
If i found that my girl friend have affair with another guy then definetly i will feel bad but i will ask her to whome you actualy love & you want to get married & if you don't like me then right now just tell me no that you not love me if she say no then i am not going to force her to say yes because i want true love & not sacrifices
• United Arab Emirates
26 Jan 07
Definitely Yes, my reaction first would be to talk to my boyfriend why is it happened why he did that. If he explained it better it would be fine to me, and remember there's always a second chance but you have to be aware that you have given him a second chance so if its third already you better think it right, he will not be a better person for you. Heresay, "Fool me once shame on you, fool me trice shame on me". :)
• India
26 Jan 07
if i find my gal frnd with another boy then to show how boys can also do i'll catch another girl before her.........
• United States
26 Jan 07
Come on humaaaa, you have to know what you should do. At least from my vantage point it's OVER. This is a total lack of respect and loyalty. This person has already moved on but is still hanging around because you're a security net in case this other person doesn't work out or nothing better comes along. Get out now while you're still healthy physically and mentally. What I mean by that is; You don't know if this other person has any transmittable diseases. In addition, you will drive yourself nuts thinking of reasons why you were cheated on. When it's not the victim's fault at all. You'll go through emotions like sadness, denial, rejection, anger, remorse, regret, etc. There are plenty of good people out there who will respect you and stay committed. I hope this is about a friend of your's and not you. ‹(°¿°)›
@UcoksBaBa (802)
• Indonesia
26 Jan 07
I so mad and my felt so bad to my girlfriend if i see she get out with another guy because she his was cheating me and i will ask to her for the reason why she go out with the another guy not with me.
@jetling (233)
• India
25 Jan 07
if it is friendship only ok, it is not bad, because in a society humans have to interact, if any other relationship it is very bad.
• India
25 Jan 07
I will feel bad, But i wont hurt her. Because I love her so much that i can't think of to hurt her. I'll just tell her the reality of world & I'll realise her about what are our relations?.. Rest of the things depends on her thinking....
@ikinta (1238)
• Indonesia
25 Jan 07
I would just break up with her and move on..what else can i do?
@hamza123 (984)
• Pakistan
25 Jan 07
well of course i will feel bad and will leave her ...
• India
25 Jan 07
its very bad for me if she chaets with me ......
• Philippines
25 Jan 07
Its kinda hard if its the first time it happens i might be able to forgive but if its not i might let him go its really hard to say it may sound easy when your not in that kind of situation but once your in it its hard to decide
@Multanee (268)
• Pakistan
25 Jan 07
nothing just i'll search out for another.
@PhMaker (250)
• United States
24 Jan 07
I will be hurt and i ll loose the trust forever. there is no need to be angry, if shes happy with someone else its her wish, but than there is no need to maintain the relationship. i ll be hurt more bcos she didnt feel i was worth sharing and what she really felt about