When did you lose your virginity?

@jessmtiu (251)
Philippines
January 24, 2007 8:58pm CST
Being a virgin nowadays is not the usual thing. Most people lose their virginity as early as when they hit puberty. I believe a lot of this is because of the influence of media on young minds. The movies portray those who are promiscuous as being "cool" and belong to the in-crowd while those who wait are considered prudes or aloof. I still believe in waiting until after marriage. Your virginity is the best gift you can give your spouse. When did you lose your virginity?
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105 responses
• United States
25 Jan 07
I was one month from being 17 and I thought I was in love, which I wasn't. I admit, it was a bad call, but I was interested in a guy who was not a virgin and I thought that it was the only way to get in good with him...bad choice!
@Multanee (268)
• Pakistan
25 Jan 07
wow
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• Italy
25 Jan 07
in a car
@clp2006 (163)
• United States
25 Jan 07
The person asked When not Where! Read the post first before you respond!
• United States
25 Jan 07
I lost my virginity when I was 14, to my second boyfriend. We are still friends. He is a good hearted person. I do not regret losing my virginity. If I ever get married someday, their are more important things I can give someone I love other than my virginity. It's a persons choice. It's not a bad thing for someone to wait, but if someone chooses not that - that is their choice as well.
• India
25 Jan 07
How you do like that if u doesn't belive that this persone not with you always and lost your virginity. How you expect that next man in your life keep happy without your proff of your actual love?
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• India
25 Jan 07
Will u say to the man who is going to marry u that "u r not a virgin"? virginity matters!!if u r not virgin till marriage. Its something like cheating.
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@ronita34 (3923)
• Canada
25 Jan 07
I have to admit that i was also 14 and graduating grade 9 going into grade 10!! I was young but i was also with the guy for almost 5 years until he began getting abusive and i put my foot down and left!!!
@nnsb75 (632)
• United States
25 Jan 07
I agree with you, but i lose mine a month before our wedding but im still proud coz the man who get it is my husband for the rest of my life..
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@sanjayko (339)
• India
25 Jan 07
This means that you delivered ur child on your marriage...joking HAHA
• United States
22 May 07
I lost my virginity to my exH. I thought it would be forever too, but reality proved me wrong...again!
• United States
25 Jan 07
i had just recently turned 17, i was a senior in highschool. No i dont feel bad about it, because almost 8 years later, im with the same man and we are married and have a child together and working on our second one. He was the only person i have ever been with
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• United States
25 Jan 07
Jihad! this is unrelated, but i love your picture! clever!
@smkwan2007 (1038)
• Hong Kong
25 Jan 07
The common definition of a virgin is someone who has never had a very intimate relationship with the opposite gender before marriage. I think virginity can be a symbol of purity. Purity is precious to both man and wife in a marriage. So I suggest both boys and girls should keep their purity intact before they become couples.
• India
25 Jan 07
i am from india where it is the thinking that you should preserve you verginity till you are get married. although i have got so many chances to lose my verginity buti haven't lose my verginity till now ,according to my culture.and i proud to be vergin till now.
• Australia
25 Jan 07
its spelt as 'Virginity' !
@canioo (140)
• Sweden
25 Jan 07
I completely agree with you about that it's better to lose it when you get married...
• Philippines
25 Jan 07
I lose my virginity when i was a 4th year student!...It was my most exciting experienced in my highschool life!...Nowadays, losing your virginity is just normal!...Teenagers is more aggressive that i thought!...Losing the viginity is not big deal anymore!...It's just like a simple thing that we indulge ourselves!...lolz
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@stella1989 (2277)
• India
25 Jan 07
iam still a virgin
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• India
25 Jan 07
if u r vergin plzzz tell ur age also
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@hazely (27)
• Philippines
25 Jan 07
Yeah, I also believe in waiting for the man that you will spend the rest of your life with before giving that most "precious gift" but it doesn't mean that those who lost it much earlier are less of a person. They are not. It is just a matter of choice and standing for the choice that you made. Meaning, having no regrets after deciding to loose it. Virginity also can have different meanings. It means being entirely pure, those technical virgins (if you know what I mean), virgins by choice, and virgins by circumstances. It cannot be just taken in just one concept. But you know what? at this age of mine, I'm proud to say that I still am. It's up to you to guess which among the choices I enumerated decsribes my type! (laugh!)
@Stephanie5 (2953)
• United States
25 Jan 07
I was almost 16. I think I was like 15 and 3/4. I wish I would of waited! I had a baby 6 days after my 17th birthday. I wish I would of done a lot of things different....but I don't regret any of my children. I think your opinion is the way to go. Wait until you are married! Don't rush it. It's SOOOO not worth it!
@howiedy (236)
• Philippines
25 Jan 07
I lost mine when I was in highschool. No regrets though. Virginity should not be an issue. It is a choice. Nothing is wrong with losing one's virginity as long as you are responsible, and not stepping on anyone's shoes or making out with a committed person. But if one chooses to be a virgin, I agree that is the best gift ever to be given to your beloved half.
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@Multanee (268)
• Pakistan
25 Jan 07
well its a difficult question. i havnt any chance to lose this precious thing. have a nice day nice to meet u
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@mchoneyz (35)
• Australia
25 Jan 07
I lost my virginity when I was 15, with my first boyfriend. I thought it was true love forever - but it wasn't at all. I was young and silly, and if I could do it all over again I would have waited till it really was someone special. BUT HOW DO YOU KNOW TRUE LOVE WHEN YOUR YOUNG?????
• United States
25 Jan 07
That's why marriage was a good meter for me...
• United States
25 Jan 07
I am one of those people who lost it early. I lost my virginity when I was only 14 years old. I ended up getting pregnant when I was 16 and now I am 17 and have a 6 week old baby boy.
@MellieC (783)
• United States
25 Jan 07
Wow what a jerk!
• India
25 Jan 07
i am still vergin n i am not 20
• India
25 Jan 07
i am stil vergin n i am now 20
• India
25 Jan 07
i lost my virginity to my husband. i know its cool to loose virginity soon but i dont believe in that. i know of my friends who have lost it at the age of 15 and by23 they are not virgin.
• Philippines
25 Jan 07
Wow! I'm also planning to lose my virginity to my husband in the future and not anytime soon
@nanhegujral (4634)
• India
25 Jan 07
I am still virgin and I am 23 by now. Most of my friends keep on telling me that virginity is not about dignity but its all about oportunity but I don't think so. I think that it would be better if I wait for some more time and when I get sure about my life partner.
• Australia
25 Jan 07
good one! i like your attitude...its definately your choice, and not really about opportunities
@innechen (1322)
• Indonesia
26 Jan 07
i agree with you, even in my country where virginity is so important well...its not anymore.i loss my virginity on age 18 with my ex-, and i only have 2 relationship anyway and the last one is with my husband.its hard to keep being virgin nowadays maybe becoz the high life temptation
• United States
26 Jan 07
I'm 22, and still a virgin. No, I am not waiting for marriage. I am, however, waiting for someone that I feel is worth it.
@aprilten (1977)
• Philippines
26 Jan 07
I lost my virginity when I was in my early 20's and it was to my husband now. So what happened is that my honeymoon gift to him came in a little early. But, like you said, nowadays, virginity doesn't seem to be an issue anymore. If you really love the girl then her virginity should not be a big deal.