" virginity a sign of dignity or lack of oppurtunity in todays world"

India
January 25, 2007 2:14am CST
wat do u think abt this topic? according to me its a sign of dignity n innocence , mayb i say this as my way of being brought up was diff n i lost it only after marriage even though i had a love marriage agianst my parents wish. but wat i see n hear nowadays is tat it isnt that valued nowadays its good to be one its ok if u arent thats the attitude... some even appreciate the fact that ue expeienced!! well the world sure is changing a lot n well we all are sure adapting to it to....
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• Philippines
25 Jan 07
innocense and dignified, well these are keywords for virgins. sad to say, nowadays, virgins are endangered species and should be protected by the government. because there may come a day that, just like a dodo, they may be doomed for extinction
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• India
25 Jan 07
hi soumylegra, Great topic! In my view virginity is about self respect and commitment. If you are not a virgin and your self respect is not harmed anyways, by the act, its you own call. Everyone should be free enough to be able to choose among the two. There are people who are very sensitive to change, who believe in integrity of character, for them being a virgin is a confidence booster. There are also some who yield to peer pressure and indulge in extreme of love. There is no offense in doing so, if it doesnot harm your attitude. But one allways needs to be cautious in such relationships and dont let love turn into lust or you will end up nowhere. Cheers {:-))
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@anup12 (4180)
• India
25 Jan 07
I totally agree with your view.I do think that being virgin is good before marriage irrespective of love or arranged marriage becuase that will feel better for everybody invloved.It is a sign of trust and respect for each other.
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• South Africa
25 Jan 07
I don't think that virginity is a sign of anything... It really depends on the person and their reasons for remaining a virgin.
@rockbaby (808)
• Lebanon
25 Jan 07
i think its sign of dignity and innocence,because it's the only thing that you have the right to lose or no! and the choice, and i think the best choice is to lose it for the ones you love, and another thing, its sign of morality, there are things called morals that a person should remember!
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@MsaliaMS (47)
• United States
25 Jan 07
I agree with you. It is a special thing and should be done after marriage with the one you love. Today it is looked upon badly if you haven't done it yet.
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@rkalia73 (240)
• India
26 Jan 07
it depends on ones opinion. But yes after marriage both partners should be faithful to each other.
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@IMHO_Dan (175)
• India
26 Jan 07
Well someone had told that in todays world "Virginity is not lack of dignity rather lack of opportunity". well when we look around in our society then i think its pretty true, coz in todays world being a virgin is not Cooooool!!!!! Crap total crap is wat i will say, It is one of those rare gifts that we can give a person, well is it fair that u give it to any one????????? Isn't it fair that we wait till we find that right person. Are u being fair to that special person u meet sometime later for who u mean everything????? well after all its upto each individual but down the lane when u think abt all these questions n find hard to answer, where can u find a place for ur self to hide...
@weemam (13377)
25 Jan 07
I was a virgin when I was maried and I too was proud of it . I know that times have changed ( I have been married for almost 46 years ) . I often think if this were still the norm that there would be a lot less STD's.... Well that Is my opinion ..xx
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@deeola (23)
• Canada
25 Jan 07
really the greatest and worst gift We Have is choice. We get to chose what goes for us and We can also misuse it. virginity is a thing me ones choice
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@cuhkiz (568)
• Philippines
25 Jan 07
for me virginity stays valuable as ever. Only who surrender it that easy doesnt value it more as what have to it valued. Its a fact that the world is changing fast and we've noticed it. But for me virginity is like a treasuren only yor forever love you can endowe. Its not just we can offer but this matter is really important. Giving it away, to all and all the time isnt a respect for self.
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25 Jan 07
It all dependson your viewpoint in life. Think to yourself, where is this all going? Why should i keep myself a virgin? why should i give it away as soon as possible? Asking 'why' can tell u a lot about yourself. The world is changing not by chance or coincidence, but because people r changing it. There are 2 types of people on this planet, those who are moulded by this world and those who mould the world.
@morocz66 (121)
• Romania
25 Jan 07
for girls its a sign of dignity n innocence, for boys stupidity:)
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@dbeast (1498)
• India
25 Jan 07
now this is scary isnt it.well in my country it is the same old traditional way to lose it after marriage or at least that is what i thought until a few days back.well things are changing with changes in technology.people have started experimenting and prefer having multiple relationships than a single binding one.and guess what ?In the end we ll need to start following and adapting ourselves according to the way of the world whether we like it or not.
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• India
25 Jan 07
yes virginity is a sign of dignity, i agree with this .
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@stella1989 (2274)
• India
25 Jan 07
to me its asign of dignity but in todays world its a lack of oppurtunity.!!
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• Pakistan
25 Jan 07
well to my mind its a sign of dignity . because nuns are virgin all over the world. what do you think that they dont get the oppurtunity. am sure they get because oppurtunity do knock at the door once.hence proved to be virgin is a good thing.
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• United States
25 Jan 07
I think it's great to wait until marriage. But, I agree with another respondant when they say that love comes first. I don't think virginity, in itself, has any real value, but giving it up does.
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@tinkutr (382)
• India
25 Jan 07
You r 100 % true in your thought. I agree with pleasure. Opportunities will not affect anyway if u have Strong Decision about this matter. Thanks
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• India
25 Jan 07
it depends upon on what condition she brought up.....if she comes from a conservative family background then virginity may be taken as dignity....but she comes from a ultramodern family then it may be taken as lack of oppurtunity.....
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