friend or love? which one you prefer

Malaysia
January 25, 2007 5:23am CST
last time, when i was study at colledge, i fell in love with someone. someone very special. i felt the feeling is so deeply. at the same time my best friend also admire with my girl. then i have to choose between love and friend. i choose friend. coz in my opinion i still have the long journey and better i concentrate study. until now .... i'm still always asking myself "am i did the right thing?" if i were you, which one you prefered?
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6 responses
@xabimaru (340)
• Malaysia
19 Feb 07
Well if you say you let your friend have your crush then i think you are right. There are a lot of girls out there waiting and want the kind hearted guy like you. Just let your friend go on with his love life and you should find someone else. Come on, enjoy your single life while you can dude.
@RA2_007 (151)
• India
19 Feb 07
Well if the Feeling is really deep for both u... then it means A COMPETITION... U can make it a war or a friendly match... Such Friendly matches b/w friends are nowadays very common in our college... Its also a bit more exciting way to get ur gf..Jus take it easy & have fun loving. In such a situation My latest rule is jus dont give up Also my latest theory is Love is Just a choice not a destiny as people oftenm say
@RA2_007 (151)
• India
19 Feb 07
Hey..I feel real Sorry about u yaar Actually I have also done the same thing u did more than once in my life.. But till now I never felt I did anything wrong.. since after a few days I cud forget all those girls completely..I always found it was just a small attraction, which was not very lasting... According to me, Next time when u r in such a situation (I'm sure it will happen again) u should think well..try making a friendship with the girl & see if she really suits u.. if u still feel u really need that girl then u better discuss that with ur friend.. may b 4 him its just an infatuation
• India
25 Jan 07
if i was in ur position i would prefer love.it is difficult to get.and i don't like to think about losing.
@aelyus (635)
• Romania
25 Jan 07
I prefer love!It depends of the person who's near me!If i see that person and i feel atract about her,i want we to be more than friends!
@darshakk (2142)
• India
25 Jan 07
it depends as to who is more imp for u in your life? and why? hen decide.i wud decide in this way !!!!!!!!