what will you do if you saw your guy holding hands with another girl?.

love or hate?. - well what do you think?. would you rather love or hate?.
@patrice7 (1191)
United States
January 25, 2007 9:08am CST
well i was sitting in a booth and waiting for my hot choco. i was looking at the people passing by and then i saw a guy which very well looks like my hubby and with another girl!. they were so sweet and holding hands and they were laughing!. i instantly got angry and i was about to cross the road and raise hell when i saw the shoes the guy was wearing.. well my hubby doesnt wear shoes like that so i was very relieved. they had the same long hair and the same height and everything.. i cant quite see the face because it was quite dark.. so i naturally thought that maybe it was my boyfriend. but i was wrong.. but if it was him would actually go to them and instantly eat them up alive. i would yell and scratch and claw my way into the girls face and i would kick the balls of my hubby!. the nerve of him to do that to me. well, how about you?. if you saw your loved one holding hands with another person what would you do?.
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@sunshinecup (7871)
25 Jan 07
I would tear into my husband like there isn't any tomorrow! First I would let her know I was his wife, and she best back up, I don't want to hurt her. Then I would let him have it. Her, I could care less, I haven't a relationship with her nor the understanding he has, that he is taken. Him, I don't think I would be able to stop stomping him.
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@patrice7 (1191)
• United States
25 Jan 07
yes exactly!. the nerve of him to play around!. you have my support all the way!.
@manong05 (5027)
• Philippines
25 Jan 07
you eat them alive and kick your hubby's ball only to find out later that the girl is his sister whom he haven't met for a long time. Take it easy there. Ok!
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@patrice7 (1191)
• United States
25 Jan 07
well i meant the real thing.. i know his sister and his family.. well if you saw you gf like that?. and you know that this guy is not related to her and they are very sweet and the works.. what do you think will you do?. pls answer..
@Deane_2005 (1644)
• Philippines
2 Feb 07
It happens to me already thought he was with another girl because I had seen him holding hands with another girl in a mall.I was really shocked that time so when I come in contact with both of them in a mall hallway my boyfriend has even smiled at me, but my reactions was like am going to eat him alive, too glad I didnt make any scene there,He was even smiling at me without removing his hands in that girls shoulder ,Thinking that my boyfriend has betrayed me I didn't even answer him when he called my name. What I do is break up with him and texted him about many stuff, I guess am stupid because I later find out that girl was her cousins and they were very close. He even told me that the girl was at the mall with him because he wanted me to met his cousin. Am so young at that time and I never listen up to what he had said so our relationship had ended that time, later did I find out that the girl was really his cousin and he is not betraying me at all. I think we should not overly reacted if we could see our boyfriend with another girl unless obcourse they are in intimate moments we must atleast have proofs before we get mad.
@fabwisp (1327)
2 Feb 07
Erm......I think I would follow them to see exactly what they were up to.....then I'd kill him LOL.
• United Arab Emirates
27 Jan 07
straight away go and kick them..what else do expect me to do ??? Behave like a saint.....impossible...how disgrace
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• Malaysia
2 Feb 07
Let it be. Be calm and cool.
@k3tk3t (3128)
• Philippines
2 Feb 07
well...that is bad for me...i will defenitely got jelous..
• United States
1 Feb 07
i would make sure it's him and then go flip out on him for cheating. good thing it wasn't your man. i would do the same thing that you mentioned. i would chop his goods off so he doesnt get to enjoy the pleasures of any female ever.
• Philippines
2 Feb 07
I don't know how i would react or if I can take the situation. But one thing I'm sure, he can never see me and our children...EVER!!!!!!!!!!
@Anakata2007 (1785)
• Canada
2 Feb 07
I'm glad it wasnt' him. If I saw my hubby holding hands with another girl, I would go all numb and probably start shaking and crying. I would certainly follow him but just ask him WHY?