What will you do if you bf betray you?

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Philippines
January 25, 2007 11:12pm CST
what will you do if oyur bf betray oyu and ask for another chance, ask for oyur forgiveness, would you give him another chance?
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• Philippines
26 Jan 07
nothing...i let him go. i want him to be happy if his not happy with my company i rather set him free than suffer every time his with me..that will make me feel better..
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@xelissa (776)
• New Zealand
4 Feb 07
Totally agree with you 100%
• United States
26 Jan 07
It would depend on what my boyfriend did. If he cheated on me, abused me emotionally or physcially then I'd seriously consider breaking up with him.
• Philippines
13 Feb 07
Yes your right its hard to trust again the person who hurt you physically specially emotionally..thanks
• India
26 Jan 07
ur question itself wrong..y bf will only betray not gf..
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@aelyus (634)
• Romania
26 Jan 07
I think that if he did that mistake once time,there will be also other times!I don't know if I would forgive him,because I would be hurt for sure!It depends of how much I love him!
@anyutza (138)
• Romania
26 Jan 07
I don`t know if I were able to give him another chance ,cause once he betraied me,he would betraied me whenever he will have the opportunity.
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• United States
26 Jan 07
I have, many times over. Forgiveness is an incredible thing which can influence a relationship in many different ways. If you truly love him, then talk to him and see why he did what he did. I truly think that most people deserve a second chance, especially if it's someone who's taken a place in your heart!
• Philippines
13 Feb 07
Of course because I believe that no body is perfect thanks
@rikroy (91)
• India
26 Jan 07
well...i think i will give him a second chance only if i feel i can trust him again...i love ma boy friend a lot...and i cant even think of he betraying me...he is very very very loyal...trust me on this...so i cant even think of me going through such a situation....:)
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• India
26 Jan 07
if i wud have born as a gal and see my bf with other gal.......then i wud kick her out...........
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@xelissa (776)
• New Zealand
4 Feb 07
I'd run a mile if he asks for forgiveness, such actions need time to heal, and if he asked me at that time, I'd keep away from him, til I'm ready to face him (which'll probably be never) and see if the loves strong enough or if theres stil love
@cheerldr (594)
• Philippines
26 Jan 07
Yes, I would give him a chance. But generally, it depends if he is really worth the chance. BUT if that person has cheated on you for the nth time, I suppose you have to think more than twice.
• India
26 Jan 07
I Feel we must not give chance to these kind of people if his love is not pure we have to cut the relationship
• United Arab Emirates
26 Jan 07
Do not afraid, tell him/ her your feelings, try hear things from him/her that will best explain their excuses.
• India
4 Feb 07
Nothing it's simple, find a new one. We should never stop in our life, if he betrayed you then there will be no guarantee that he will be loyal in near future also. So, better to find a new hunk and enjoy.
@angelco (345)
• Philippines
26 Jan 07
i will talk to my boyfriend first why he did that thing to me...i'll ask him what are his expectations in our relationship...i'll also give him another chance but the trust i'll gave him before is not the same anymore...if on the second chance he betrayed me again im sorry with him but still i'll forgive him for what he has done...i'll also talk to him if much better if he can't change his attitude, we have to be friends :)
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@manmaxman (850)
• India
2 Feb 07
i dont have any idea
@srlxmi (253)
• India
26 Jan 07
i'l 4give him most prob..but givin him a 2nd chance depends on the situation...i'l give him a chance 2 tell me wat went wrong or right or watever...n if i get convinced then yeah...i wd give him a 2nd chance...actually some1 here said i wd 4give n give nthr chance if he's gotten a place in my heart....but if i feel he's takin advantge of that i guess it'l a diff response
• Philippines
26 Jan 07
yes i would for the sake of my kids
• India
26 Jan 07
No i won't if it is not true love i will cut my relationship and try to forget the love affair and start a new life. It is difficult but i will try to do what i have said above