love marriage or arrange marriage ?????

@kunal133 (111)
India
January 26, 2007 5:02pm CST
which marriage is the best and long life---love marriage or arrange marriage?????
5 responses
@wm69love88 (3466)
• China
27 Apr 08
I don't think all arranged marriages are wrong, but I think that love marriage is the best.
@aries_0325 (3060)
• Philippines
7 Jan 08
I would choose a love marriage for best and long life. For me, I would choose to a love marriage. I would choose this because I believe that having a love to the person who you marry will bring a good harmony to your relationship and it is not hard to be him/her for the rest of your life.
• India
26 Jan 07
i m an indian so think arrange marriage is best....
• United States
26 Jan 07
I think that love marriage is the best. I would hate to have to marry someone I don't know and plan a life with someone that I haven't spent any time with. That is just wrong. On the other hand... as far as long lasting... I think it could be a possiblity of the arrange marriages last longer. Often times families and their reputations are on the line with arrange marriages and they make the people stay together with divorce not even being an option. But if you and the person are not getting along it is misery for years and years. I would take my chances with the love marriage anyday.
• China
27 Nov 07
i would choose love marriage . i cant image people who are not know eath other better spent the most time at the same house . espeacially between the husbands and wives .