loving yourself

I am a large woman with a bad temper. I like me because I do not hate myself. This person who sits and finds all their physical flaws do not like themselves and will not be happy. When you can look in the mirror and say I like me. I am a good person. Who has a right to say your fat or skinny or anything else. Once you have self esteam and you like you, you will find others will like you as well. I also think that if more people liked themselves the cosmetic companies will loose a lot of money. When I was younger I wore all that makeup but as I got older I wondered who I was trying to impress and are those people worth impressing. The answer is no. I have to make me happy and that my friend is what is important in the long run. You have to live with yourself 24/7 so you are the only one that counts. It is only my opinion also that if you stop trying to impress others you will find true happiness as well. Just my opinion. The other thing is if we all looked alike the world would be very boring.

Hi friend,actually sometimes I think like that but my husband always give me advice don't think negative about myself.I think you can't hate yourself because all the fate from God to be born you like this.you must proud with yourself because each birth must have speciality.We don't know only God know the happening.