Are you a great pretender?

Sometimes ,it is good to pretend but not for always,pretending is like carrying a heavy load that we have to carry them forever which is not good. Pretending is like wearing a mask hiding what we really are, and if we continue doing it will not contribute to a good result, our friends will realized later that they are talking to a false person, or simply what we call it a liar. As early as possible, we should learn to unmask and lay down the load we are carrying, by then we will realize that we are a happier person, sometimes when we pretend , we tend to think what if the other person will realize that we are pretending, what will he says to me if he,she founds out, we become worried of it and it results to lack of sleep. But if we project our true person, we learned to admit and accept, a true friend will also accept us whatever we are, and it will surely bring happiness to both. In case of love, you tell a friend that you still love the guy, but he left you away. Your friend will offer her shoulder to lean on, your burden of carrying that load will be swept away, and you will feel better. Although, your topic was 5 months ago but it is a nice thing to share, good day to you.

I don't usually pretender. Everything about how i felt,you can see it in my face. Even if i pretend that I'm happy, my friends and family know it right away just look at my face. I can't hide my face to be happy when I'm exactly feeling sad. And I can't pretend to be understand something, if my face shows that I don't. It easy to see what I'm feeling, because my friends said "Just look at your eyes and face, we know what you are feeling exactly..even if your mouth said otherwise". That made me not a great pretender. Your title reminds me a lot with old songs.."I'm a great pretender.."..LOL.

i used to be a great pretender, pretending that im doing well, wants to be accepted by everybody, wants to make everybody be happy. Later on, i found that the 'pretender' games makes me loosing my self ... i regain my own identity after a lot of things that i've been through in the past. Now im happy to be me, if other are accepting me, than thank you, if i makes anyone annoyed / hurt, then please tell me, and i'll see what i can do to overcome that. are you happy by becoming a great pretender ? what do you want ? what's your intention ? ... try to awake your awareness deeper inside of you.

Its hard to pretend. Because people will angry to you. And you will lose some friends

yah! i am a great pretender... i pretend that everythings fine but deep inside not... i am always pretending that i am ok...