We think my best friends husband is gay..

@LBS1178 (317)
United States
October 8, 2006 2:41pm CST
we dont know for sure, but hes been spending alot of time with a older man who has never been married and has no children. They dissapear for hours at a time, and he never spends anytime with my friend or there new baby. When hes with this man, he turns off his cell phone. Shes very distraught and doesnt know what to do. She confronted him on it and he neither confirms or denys the alligations. Help!
1 person likes this
2 responses
@cream97 (29166)
• United States
21 Feb 10
Hi, LBS1178. I personally think that something is definitely up with these two men. There is no shadow of a doubt. If he is spending too much time with this man, then chances are they are doing more than this.... It is bad that he can't be real with his wife.. She has every right to know what her husband is doing behind her back.
@choybel (5059)
• Philippines
21 Feb 10
I think she should send somebody to investigate the matter professionally, like a private detective or something. It would really bother me if I was a woman and my man was doing the things mentioned here. I know it sounds more like being too paranoid but I rather be that than go on living okay with a lie or a mystery. The earlier she finds put the truth the more time she could have to fix the matter, if fixable.