what am i going to do???

Philippines
January 27, 2007 9:21am CST
hey guys! really need help here. i have a steady bf for about 4 yrs now and we've been doing great since then. But you know some things are really not meant to be, what i am trying to say is i met a guy and i think i am starting to like him. I know i still love my bf but whenever this other guy is hanging around with us, i feel something strange, what will i do???
3 responses
@hakula (15)
• China
29 Jan 07
first, u should know which one is ur true love,i have met this thing before,at that time, i don't know what to do, and the third one is insistent.he said he would not give up whatever which one i chose,but at last i choosed my bf, not we are very happy together, and the third one is vanished from our life like the vapor sine i made a dicision.and now i was right.
• Indonesia
27 Jan 07
Well, i think you should tell you boyfriend about this, so both of you can have a discussion about this (why you have such feelings, or something about your relationship). I've been through some problems like this with my boyfriend, and we always discussed this together. I've been steady with him for 5 years now. Hop this can help you ^^
@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
27 Jan 07
you really have to ask your heart about this. love is different from infatuation. if you feel something towards this new guy, weigh things first. don't do mistakes that you will surely regret later. i had been in an 8 year relationship with my ex boyfriend. but something bad happened the other way around. he found someone else whom he thought is better than me. and months after our break up, he tried to win me back. but i had moved on and i don't want to take him anymore. i do think he regretted it since he is trying to use his mom just to make me talk to him again. but i am now in a new and healthy relationship with my loving boyfriend. so, if i were you, take time to think first. don't rush into conclusions.