ive just cheated on my wife, i dont how to tell her

There's no easy way to tell her. It's a horrible thing that you have done and will hurt her very much but you need to tell her now instead of lying to her about it and then she finds out later on down the road. Are you sorry for what you did? I hope so.

Just face the situation boldly and just take her out, inform her under what situation something terrible (for her) happened. There is nothing like telling the truth,though it hurts for a while, there are chances your sin may be condoned. What is important is your habit (if you have developed it) should die. Otherwise there will be only ship-wreck.

all i can say is just tell her there is no simple way really just don't try to sugar coat it or make excuses. i would want my husband to tell me up front. just start the conversation about telling her how you feel about her and if there is any flaws let her know let her down as easy as possible