What is the best way to part off from the one whom you loved the most ??

India
January 27, 2007 2:14pm CST
Very lucky few get a chance to live a life with someone you loved the most in life !! but for most of us at one point of time we need to part off from the one whom we loved the most and dreamed of staying together for whole life !! deciding how to part or break the relationship is a very painful part of it. Is there any way where you both part off from each other and stay an very happy life anfter that whithout having any hard feelings against anyone. i Feel there must be... Help me in finding out the best way for a successful partition !!
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6 responses
@oarnamav (2708)
• India
13 Feb 07
To be very frank the statement you are making is asurd logically. Nobody will opt for such kind of separation unless it comes by it's own with a devils face at your door. What is left with you is not the best but a worst ultimatum to be faced forever in the rest of the life. With nomore complains & claims there after. One must adapt the most cruel way to take a break in such a situation so that never should dare to remember the past in the future. Otherwise choosing a best way won't clean the sweet but piercing memories foreverin the rest of the life just bodily without a heart inside. I wish nobody should face such a deep pain in his life. it's just a liveng without any life left to living.
@techsam (158)
• India
14 Feb 07
But, all said and done, there are people who do go through the pains of separation..... even though they don't want it... they have to do it... sometimes not for their own sake.... but still they have to do so... What should they do??
@shobasvk (787)
• Malaysia
3 Feb 07
As for me,i never think that it would be any best way to a part from someone who we really loved.Since you still have that feelings on that person,life can be very hard living without them.At times,you can forget about them,but deep inside your heart anywhere,your loved one will still be there.It's just you can stop thinking about them when you are busy with some other works.
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• India
6 Feb 07
this is such a feeling that you cannot forget but you only try to subside !! thats the whole charm of this ...
@gharinder (2044)
• India
6 Feb 07
one can fall in love for more than once, otherwise i think it would be really difficult to live one's life, life is not an easy cup of tea you have to cope with it, love it and nourish it . i have got married i have a wonderful husband, i love him crazily because for me he is my world. i think life is to look forward, and if you happen to marry some other girl, love her and be sincere to her, you will get everything you have desired off. yours true love, i am sure about that
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@techsam (158)
• India
7 Feb 07
Hmmm.... well somehow my friend this particular topic of your has caused me to think a lot. And this is my take, there is no best way to part off, no perfect way out. Whichever way you choose it would be painful, you cannot avoid teh hurt and teh pain. It need not be directed at your partner or any person in general, after all that's not what mature adults would do right?? You would be hurt because your dreams lie shatteres, you would in pain because you haev to let go of the person you love - "the perfect one", for reasons beyond your control. You might be angry too.... at fate for treating you to such beautiful dreams and then snapping you out of it, just when they got realistic. But, then you are lucky to have met teh perfect one, before you were forced to move on in life. many don't get to do that. The onus is on you to learn your lessons and impart teh same love and affection in your future relationships!! and how to effect the parting?? well, you definitely talk... talk a lot.... let out everything... but decide first what needs to be said and what not!! sometimes for teh greater good you may have to suppress true feelings and thoughts..... for your partner's well being!! Gosh!! this is too huge a topic to conclusively write al that there is to it just like that...... You can write loads but still cover just a little bit of it!! till my friend!! ciao!!
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@techsam (158)
• India
29 Jan 07
But first I need to know the situation.....
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• India
29 Jan 07
when you are getting married to another nice girl!!
• India
7 Feb 07
i don even want to think about a part with my love.
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