would you give your partner a second chance????

Well i have been through the same situation and i gave my love a second chance and i think that it is the best ever decision i ever made in my life She was true to me and she told me everything....it was really very hard very very hard to actually hear whatever she did....but then she was really sorry and i really do love her very much So i thought of giving her a second chance and it has really paid off she has been 100 % true to me and has stopped seeing that guy anymore

no way...if I am giving 100 % I expect 100% in return. So, if he's out there getting something somewhere else, I am being short changed. It's either all or nothing!

I have been happily maried for 45 years and this is the one thing I would never have ben able to forgive . If you loose trust you loose everything in my mind xx

I don't think I could give my partner a second chance. Cheating breaks the trust that is necessary to make a relationship work.

I would not give them another chance because cheating is not something that just happens it is something you think about in advance and then you act on it. When you do that you don't care about the person you are envovled with.

No i wouldnt. I think that if they were willing to do it the first time then there is nothing holding them back from doing it again! I dont think i would be able to trust the person again. how do you learn to trust someone agian that hurt you, and it would hurt pretty bad, if someone went behind your back and cheated on you! that's totally a no no in my books. If my hubby cheated on me i'd not stick around to find out if it was going to happen agian. not worth the pain and suffering, and wondering everytime he was out of sight what it was that he was up to!

no i never will give to my partner a second chance

Well it would depend on my partner's response. If i think, she is sincere in her apology, i would like to give her a chance for sure. Afterall, you dont select your life partner in a day. You should have certinly seen some qualities in her, thats why you like that person. Mistakes are a part of life and lets face it , nobody is perfect. So , one ought to accept the fact that there are going to be phases in a relationship , where we have to think and act maturely rather than thinking ion a single dimentional way. Successful relations are not perfect, they are made on mutual understaning and some compromises. So, i would definately keep my doors open because i dont expect anyone to be saint, an imperfect but understanding partner would do for me, BUT, like i said , she should be sincere in her apology. Thats an intresing thread, sad that you only got assingle reply in over half an hour. Anyways, all the best. Hope things gona improve :)