Internet...can u find love there?

@ladyjava (1185)
Malaysia
January 28, 2007 8:23pm CST
Yes, u can.. :). I did.. my husband and i met in a yahoo chat in 1998. We met at a gathering in KL organised by the room in '99 and were married in 2000.. A friend of mine met her husband from Australia in one of the chat room as well ;-) I guess you have to open your mind and take a risk sometimes.. there are a lot of cheaters and liars out there as well who takes advantage of innocent newbies or gullible souls.. but if you dont try.. u wont know...my motto Cheers
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@cashnono (1135)
• Hong Kong
29 Jan 07
I've never tried. I should stick to my girlfriend.
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@ladyjava (1185)
• Malaysia
29 Jan 07
oh cashnono and u probably should not :).. but no one actually go into chat room or the internet for that matter to find love. But when fate and destiny step in.. nothing else matter... good luck with ur girlfriend.. as in all relationship... it takes effort to make it work... God Bless and Cheers mate.
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@cashnono (1135)
• Hong Kong
30 Jan 07
Thanks, maybe I will also try this game later, but not now, I want to get into troble. Ya... Greeting.
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@ladyjava (1185)
• Malaysia
30 Jan 07
hehe... u should never go in chat room intending to search for love... when and if it happens.. now that's another story :)
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@mbarryton (1872)
• United States
29 Jan 07
i also met mine in 2005 met him in person 2006 and was married june 2006 and we are very happy :)
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@ladyjava (1185)
• Malaysia
29 Jan 07
Cool... that's great.. and congrats to u and ur hubby.. still in the honeymoon phase eh?? Have fun always... oh have u stop chatting or still on?.. coz i stopped after my marriage...just continue with ym but not to the chat room..
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@mbarryton (1872)
• United States
29 Jan 07
im never in chat anymore and only on messenger once in awhile since i found him i feel as if i got all i need for the rooms :)
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@ladyjava (1185)
• Malaysia
29 Jan 07
I totally agree... not that i was looking for love during those chat years... its just kinda happened. And suddenly the lure of the chat room just doesnt do it for me anymore..
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@blueman (16513)
• India
29 Jan 07
there will be exceptions, but i don't think most people find their love on the internet, and i do not think i will be looking for my love on the internet.
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@ladyjava (1185)
• Malaysia
29 Jan 07
ooppsss.. i wasn't looking blueman... it just kinda happened.. one minute you're chatting, the next u're in love... fate and destiny i guess :)
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@mbarryton (1872)
• United States
29 Jan 07
lol i agree 100 %
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@noyida (795)
• Singapore
29 Jan 07
I believe you can, but I am not into it. I know you are happy now. It just that internet love story is more of a fiction kind of luv. But don't get me wrong. I knew of people that found their love thru internet,and boy how happy and meaningful their life now. But its just not for me. Sorry :(
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@ladyjava (1185)
• Malaysia
29 Jan 07
yes.. am very happy now.. Thank God!.. and yes i hear some horrifying stories as well.. so u have to be cautious all the time... not recommended for the faint hearted :)
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• United States
30 Jan 07
Oh absolutley! my fiancee and i met on myspace actually lol I know I can hear the snears now. He was in Afghanistand and sent me a message telling me about himself and asked if i would mind talking to him and being friends because he needed a woman to talk to while he was in the middle of the desert with a bunch of guys. He told me quite a bit about himself and at first i was skeptical until we discovered we shared mutual friends. I called one of them and was able to verify everything with this person. After that we talked every single day and we got very close. This was in January of last year 2006. In october of this year we will finally be married. I am very excited. I totally agree with you on having to open your ming and take a risk. I did and I am so glad I did. Never have i had any regrets. Did you have any ever?
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@ladyjava (1185)
• Malaysia
30 Jan 07
oh NEVER.... so far my marriage have been blissful.. ups and downs in marriage is normal.. to tell u otherwise would not be honest.. but i have never regretted my decision to marry my husband.. where are u from??
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@firoafame (359)
• Thiruvananthapuram, India
29 Jan 07
wow. i have hear stories like this. there is a tv program in discovery travel and living call e-love. which shows couple like you. but i prefer not to find my match in a chat room. maybe use a dating site. which is a little more trust worthy
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@ladyjava (1185)
• Malaysia
29 Jan 07
yes i understand where u are coming from.. i was a bit skeptical as well in the beginning.. when me and hubby started exchanging photograph during the initial stages.. we were both not sure whether we can really trust that it was really an actual photo of each other... until we met... then the rest like they say is history...heheh
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@melufa (93)
• Philippines
31 Jan 07
i guess yes.my aunt found her husband on the internet.they're just chatting and first and eventually they met. now they're living happy. ting
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@ladyjava (1185)
• Malaysia
27 Apr 07
Amen!