Her mother forced her father to divorce her

Pakistan
January 29, 2007 4:19am CST
My friend Hajra and I are very good friends we went to the same school and now we are in the same university. She is 20 years old girl. She have two younger brothers. Last year her mother forced her father to divorce her despite his deep reluctance. Theirs wasn't a happy marriage right from the start, so their divorce was hardly surprising. Her father is a good man and he was doing everything to give his family a good life. Her mother loved someone else and she wasnt willing to marry her father in the first place but she had to because her dad was a heart patient and could have a heart attack if she have said no to him. My friend and her brothers were totally brainwashed by their mother aginst their father. Her mother was always complaining that her father wasnt earning enough thats because she was always comparing him with his brothers. When her mother finally managed to get a divorce then she realised that it was her mothers fault all along and started meeting her father. When her mother finds out that she became very aggressive towards hajra. Last month hajra was talking with her father on the mobile that her father baught for her and she was hidding it from her mother. Her mother find out about her mobile and that she is talking to her father. She became really angry with Hajra that she slaped her and turned her out of her place in the middle of the night. How she managed to reach my place is another story and we called her father and told him everything that has happend to her. Now in these circumstances, her father accepted a proposal for her the problem is that she wants to complet her studies. Now its all upto the person who is going to marry her to dicide that she continue her studies or not. I am worried about my friend. What can i do to help her she is really upset from all this situation...
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3 responses
• India
29 Jan 07
I think you are true friend of her .you should Be with her ,I think as friend you will become her strength....
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@yorb24 (2179)
• United States
29 Jan 07
The only thing you can really do is just be there for her. Whether she will complete her schooling as you said is up to the man she marries. Just be available to listen to her, let her cry on your shoulder. Be her support system.
@hariharbhat (1312)
• India
29 Jan 07
The time is to console her and give here confidence for the future life.She is lucky to have a friend like you. Tell here to be with you for some days and meanwhile call my come from here mother to come back home.It is better to go back home once the mother calls her back. Let she continue the study and find a good companion in life.