please help..i am a little confused here!!

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What link am i supposed to send to my friends to refer them to mylot..i mean i might just be able to get a few people to come and join right? so if i suppose want to paste a request to my friends to join mylot on my website..what link am i supposed to put up?? i checked FAQs...and it kinda confused me. also how do i get friends to activate themselves here..? any experienced comments?