friends or lovers

@caelle07 (113)
Philippines
January 29, 2007 9:27am CST
i know someone who is already married but is frequently calling her friend.. actually, the friend is a guy.. i think they share intimate thoughts together.. but they wont agree with us when we say they look more like a couple..waaaaaaa.. u think are they lovers or really just friends.. by the way.. they kiss..
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@alp4ce (8)
• Israel
24 Feb 07
you need to show the whole situation. I think if they were lovers they would do anything to hide it in public. However , what do I know :) LOL I just know that real friends can be very close, as close as husband and wife. I know a couple of people who are very close friends and in the same time cannot stand one another. Did she know the guy before she got married? was there anything like that between them back than?
@kelly60 (4548)
• United States
25 Feb 07
It sounds like they could be lovers, but it doesn't mean that they necessarily are. I guess if I were married to either of these people I might be worried about what might be going on between them. I guess otherwise I would leave it to her husband to worry, and his wife or girlfriend (if he has one). Personally, I know people who are closer to their friends than they are to their spouse. I also know friends who kiss... depending on HOW they kiss. It is really hard to say for sure though.
@Rozie37 (15499)
• Turkmenistan
27 Feb 07
I think that this woman should act like she is married and leave this other guy alone. When a couple gets married they should have mutual friends. You should not have any secret relationships that your spouse is not involved in to the same extent that you are. If she has a problem that she can not discuss with her husband then she should see a professional. People should not get married unless they are prepared to be fully committed to that one person. No relationship should be more important than the one with your mate.
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@kelly60 (4548)
• United States
27 Feb 07
I'm not saying that anyone SHOULD be closer to any of their friends than their spouse, just that I have seen this in some relationships. It didn't necessarily mean that they were lovers. In some cases they were just long time friends who had always been close. I agree that there should be no secret relationships between them. I believe that neither a husband nor wife should do things behind the other one's back that they would be ashamed to do in front of them.
@caelle07 (113)
• Philippines
30 Mar 07
thanks for those who replied..u know..all your responses were good..and i ought to tell my friend about that..thanks alot...
• India
7 Feb 07
its obvious that they r lovers ....coz aftr marriage a girl is nt supposed to do the same.