would you be honest enough to tell your spouse...
31 Jan 07
that's a tough one. but if i were on that situation, no matter how disappointed or upset he might be, i'll tell him because it's something that i've done and he has the right to know it. whatever reactions or others things he's gonna do will be justifiable, it's the consequences of the actions that i have done in the past that i think in a way really hurt and tore the relationship, so i really would be the blame, the least i can do is to tell it to him.
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30 Jan 07
Well, never say never, but I don't think I'd put myself in the position of having to tell that. I'm a firm believer that if my love has gone enough that I can "cheat" and feel the need to do so.. then I should be woman enough to face him and tell him before I do it. Lying is as bad as the act of cheating itself.
30 Jan 07
well thats a tough one for me as i am happily married to my hubby for the last 3 yrs n we love each other deeply. so thats not a possibilty at all, but as you say if an affair was there then i wudnt be able to tell him n also wudnt be able to face him , proably i wud just disapper frm his life, due to guilt ...