would you be honest enough to tell your spouse...

Philippines
January 29, 2007 9:09pm CST
if you've been in an extra marital love affair?
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6 responses
• United States
30 Jan 07
Yes I could for sure. However, if I did have an affair, I would not stay with him as I could not face him. But,I would not betray him like that. We are married 30 years.
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@mishang (499)
• Philippines
31 Jan 07
that's a tough one. but if i were on that situation, no matter how disappointed or upset he might be, i'll tell him because it's something that i've done and he has the right to know it. whatever reactions or others things he's gonna do will be justifiable, it's the consequences of the actions that i have done in the past that i think in a way really hurt and tore the relationship, so i really would be the blame, the least i can do is to tell it to him.
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@bronie123 (4589)
• United States
31 Jan 07
Yes that is something that would eat me up inside if i didn't confess. But if i wasn't happy with the person i was with i would just be honest and maybe we could work thing out before it goes that far.
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@stonehr (818)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
31 Jan 07
Only if that happen I'll feel so much guilty , but I doubt that can be happen to me to have an affair... Anyway this is a very good question since many people will not say....
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• United States
30 Jan 07
Well, never say never, but I don't think I'd put myself in the position of having to tell that. I'm a firm believer that if my love has gone enough that I can "cheat" and feel the need to do so.. then I should be woman enough to face him and tell him before I do it. Lying is as bad as the act of cheating itself.
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• India
30 Jan 07
well thats a tough one for me as i am happily married to my hubby for the last 3 yrs n we love each other deeply. so thats not a possibilty at all, but as you say if an affair was there then i wudnt be able to tell him n also wudnt be able to face him , proably i wud just disapper frm his life, due to guilt ...