Is it easier to toilet train a boy or a girl?

Australia
January 30, 2007 6:29am CST
People always told me it is easier to toilet train a girl. They told me the learn a lot quicker than a boy. I found my daughter was much harder and took longer than my sons. I know all children do it in there own time, but just wanted to hear what other people found. Was it a boy or a girl that you found the easiest to toilet train? Love to hear what you think.
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• Singapore
31 Jan 07
When I was toilet training my 2 kids, I did not go all out with the potty and all. I just placed them on the toilet seat 15 mins after their meal and if something happened, they got a sweet. If nothing i just assured them eventually it would happen. Also before they went to bed it was to the toilet. My girl learnt a lot faster...and she was both night and day trained the same time. For my boy it took me a year.
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• Australia
31 Jan 07
With my first son, he got used to the potty and when I got wanted him to start using the toilet, he didn't want to. It was like starting all over again, but not as long. My other two, didn't use the potty, they just started using the toilet. I did offer them the potty but they were not interested. Thanks!
• Australia
5 Feb 07
Oh no! The things kids will play with. Thanks!
• Singapore
31 Jan 07
I didn't use a potty mainly because they kept playing with it. They sat one it once and then after it became more of a toy to them...so off to the store it went.
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• United States
30 Jan 07
I had always heard that too but it wasn't true for us. Our oldest put up a fight and refused to use the potty until she turned 3 and then she only did it off and on. She finally was potty trained when she was 3 years and 2 months old. Our younger daughter was even worse. She did try and was going on the potty by 2 1/2 but she several accidents a day and refused to poop on the potty at all. She wasn't potty trained until this past summer when she was 3 years and 8 months old. My son, on the other hand, was a breeze. He was fully potty trained at 2 1/2 (just after my oldest started using the potty). I tried training him sitting down first but that didn't work. So my husband took over and decided he needed to stand up. Within a week of learning standing up he was peeing all the time in the potty and a month later he was going both ways on the potty. He was, by far, the easiest of the three.
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• Australia
30 Jan 07
That is very interesting how when you tried to train him sitting down it didn't work, but he quickly learn't to go standing up. My boys didn't learn to pee standing up for a while after. With my daughter it didn't matter if she saw me going or not, she still didn't want to do it. It was on her 3rd birthday that she decided that she wanted to start using the toilet and she was fine after that. Thanks!
• United States
30 Jan 07
I believe it is easier to train a girl than a boy. I am just going on my girls and my sisters girls/boys. One thing that I have learned that has made toilet training easier is that when I go to the bathroom I take her with me and she tries to copy everything I do...that has made it so much easier training my daughter who is 2 years old.
@fabwisp (1327)
31 Jan 07
My two boys were both very easy. But my little girl is proving very difficult. I think it just luck. some kids get it quick and others take a bit more time.
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• Australia
31 Jan 07
I think your right, some will pick it up quicker than others. Just by reading my responses, it doesn't seem to matter if they are boy or girl. Thanks!
• Canada
30 Jan 07
The only reason they say that boys are harder to train is that their 'pee and poop' systems are VERY closely connected, and when they feel the urge for one, they might not feel it for another, or distinguish the difference between the 2 feelings. They might tell you that they have to poop, and then pee their pants while they're standing there. THat's the only reason they say it's harder.
• Australia
30 Jan 07
Maybe that is why my boys were easier, they didn't learn to do a pee standing up for a while. They would sit on the potty or toilet and pee for a few months. Then they learnt to do it standing up. Thanks!
• Canada
30 Jan 07
I taught my son to pee sitting down. I also noticed that everytime he poops, he pees too, that's because the pressure on the rectum when a BOY poops pushes his bladder and MAKES him pee.. he has no control. SO.. when boys pee their pants, they might not always know that they did, or had the feeling they needed to pee.
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• United States
31 Jan 07
When I moved in with my ex girlfriend she had twins just learning to use the toilet and it took a while for them to get the hang of it but they did. But when my son was born and he got to that age it seemed to me he was playing games. always telling us after he went. He took much longer.
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• Australia
5 Feb 07
I remember my kids always coming out and telling us because they were so proud of themselves, then we used to make a big deal about it and tell them how clever they are. Thanks!
• Italy
31 Jan 07
I thin that it's obvious that it's easier for the boy,because he is stand up,and he doesn't touch nothing.
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• Australia
31 Jan 07
I am not sure what you mean by he doesn't touch nothing. My boys didn't learn to go standing up for a while. They used to sit on the toilet and do their business first, then after a while they learned to stand up and do it. Thanks!
@jossml (464)
• Puerto Rico
31 Jan 07
I think its easy with girls, my boy took a lot of hard work to learn the toilet thing, the floor was the first toilet.
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• Australia
31 Jan 07
Hehehe! I know what that is like. I am trying to toilet train my youngest and he has left plenty of wet spots on the floor. Thanks!
• United States
31 Jan 07
Myself I find it much easier to train boys over girls. By the time my son was 1 1/2 years old he was potty trained, my girls on the other hand were not done until they were both in there threes. I always thought that it should be easier to train a girl because they can go to the bathroom with you and you can teach them. With a boy it is hard for us as moms because we do not stand to do our business. With all of this it is just easier to train a boy.
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• Australia
31 Jan 07
My boys didn't learn to stand and do it until they got the hang of using the toilet. My daughter finally decided that she was ready when she was 3. So I have found my boys to be easier than my daughter. I had better not talk too soon because my youngest is nearly 2 and we have started trying with him, but he seems to prefer the floor at the moment. All it takes is for them to do it that one time and it is easy from there. Thanks!
@wdiong (1815)
• Singapore
31 Jan 07
For me, it was easier to toilet train my daughter, who's 8 this year. My son ,21 months, does not show any interest in going to the potty . He prefers to do it in his diapers. My daughter was introduced to the potty very early at about 6 months old :)
• Australia
31 Jan 07
Did you introduce the potty to your son about 6 months old? Your son will get there though, my son is nearly 2 and I have been trying to encourage him to use the potty or toilet but he still hasn't. He will when he is ready. Thanks!
• India
31 Jan 07
dont say like this ,it depends on parents only.my son started going to toilet himself at his age of 2 itself.but my sister's daughter still not tained well she is 3 now.
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• Australia
31 Jan 07
I do agree that some parents are slack with their children and that is why some are toilet trained later than others. I know some mothers that think, oh we have to go to the shops, well lets put a nappy on. Some even say I just put a nappy on because I couldn't be bothered taking them to toilet. This doesn't help the child. On another note, some parents are not like this and try hard by encouraging there children as much as possible, they try and make it fun but there child still takes there time. I still believe that they will do it when they are ready and as long as they have their parents there to help them and support them. Thanks!
@amithist (72)
• Davisburg, Michigan
31 Jan 07
i havent ever had to train ether gender but considering guys still get ticked for urinating in corners and on trees in public i would have to say guys are harder to train. I apologize if this offends anyone but i have a very funky sense of humor and just had to drop my 2 cents in. if that bothers anyone let me know and I will stop doing it as i dont want to offend people with my odd humor.
• Australia
31 Jan 07
That is the funniest thing that I have heard today. Thanks for having such a good sense of humour. Thanks!
• Philippines
31 Jan 07
I dont think it has to do with a child being a boy or a girl. It depends upon the mother or father, how willing and persistent they wanna train the child, and also depending on the fast pick-up of the child.
• Australia
31 Jan 07
Yes, I agree after reading everyone's responses. At least they all get there eventually. With my daughter, I wasn't sure if she was ever going to do it. Thanks!
• United States
31 Jan 07
I got my son a Peter Potty. It is a standing potty he can only stand and use it and when he gets taller I can raise it or put it on the wall
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• Australia
31 Jan 07
Wow, I have never heard or seen these before. I will have to look around for one of those. Thanks!
• Italy
31 Jan 07
i thinks is more easy for boys...
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• Australia
31 Jan 07
Do you have a reason why? Thanks!
@venshida (4836)
• United States
31 Jan 07
Boys are harder to toilet train for some reason, I have no idea why but I see it all the time where the boy takes longer.
• Australia
31 Jan 07
It was opposite for me, my boys seemed to be easier than my daughter. I guess it just depends on the child. Thanks!
@limosonia1 (1559)
• United States
31 Jan 07
My boys were easier to train then my girls. The girls just didn't want to go in the bathroom. Where as the boys were so proud of themselves and were trained a lot earlier than the girls.
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• Australia
31 Jan 07
Oh how cute! I can just imagine your boys clapping and being really proud of going. I also found my boys to be easier. Thanks!
• United States
31 Jan 07
I have 2 daughters, and they were both very easy to potty train at an early age. My oldest daughter was 19 months, and my younger daughter trained herself at 16 months. (their Dad worked evenings, and I had to take her into the bathroom with me all the time). Both of them I used a potty chair that looks like a mini toilet. I used M & M's as treats for my oldest daughter, and the younger one didn't need anything. Some friends have boys and they seem harder to train, but I've only had the experience with the girls.
• Australia
31 Jan 07
By the looks of my responses, I don't think it does matter if they are boy or girl. You are so lucky to have to daughters that were easy. They were young too. Good job! Thanks!
• United States
31 Jan 07
My mom said that girls are really easy to potty train than boi\s because they fuse alot and things of that nature and lol i was always the one who was easy to learn things before my brothers
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• Australia
31 Jan 07
I found my sons to be easier than my daughter. With everything else they seem to be about the same in what they learn. Thanks!
• United States
31 Jan 07
I personally feel that it's easier to potty train a girl. My daughter didn't take anytime learning how to use the potty. but my boy is a different story. he's taking his sweet time.
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• Australia
31 Jan 07
I wish my daughter had been a bit quicker, but she got there eventually. Good luck with your son. Thanks!
@algie123 (289)
• Philippines
31 Jan 07
For me both i have a niece that is easy to teach and i also have a nephew and he is easy to teach also. for me the gender is not the basis of its capabilities.
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• Australia
31 Jan 07
After reading the responses I have been getting from other people, I would have to say that I agree. It doesn't seem to matter if it is a boy or a girl. Every child is different and they all do it when they are ready. Thanks!