What would you do & feel if your brother died before you can say SORRY...?

brothers, family - loving brothers, family
@hmike_d (1529)
Philippines
January 30, 2007 9:22pm CST
My friend confess all his mistakes for having experienced this way. He had a long dispute with his brother and never talk with at all. He knows he loves his brother so much and that's why he decided to come over and get into reconciliation as he is the one who really had the cause of it. He was wrong and he realize and cry how painful was he did to his brother. But, his burden was doubled when he found out (after he comes back home) his brother died. This is really a hurting thing he experienced that he didnt know what did he do on that time. What about you guys, can you help me influence good for my friend to recover such a feeling?
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@vangie79 (198)
• Philippines
14 Feb 07
We all know that all bad things we've done in a person, realization comes late. There's a saying that until they are still alive practice yourself how to say sorry and learn to express how you really love them. I know how painful it is that he doesn't have the chance to say sorry to his brother. If he really feel sorry for what he have done to his brother and regret it, i'm sure his brother is happy wherever he is right now.
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@hmike_d (1529)
• Philippines
14 Feb 07
You are right with that. Good to know that here and well, we're just human to commit mistakes but the good thing is if know how accept those.
• United States
31 Jan 07
Tell your friend to talk to his brother now and say he is sorry. I am sure his brother comes around him and listens, it is not too late. Also asure him that his brother knew he loved him even through anger blood is thick. Be there to comfort him in his grieving process and don't try to avoid what it is he is going through, he is going to need you now and he is going to need you there to listen and not to just get his mind off of it. Best wishes.
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@hmike_d (1529)
• Philippines
31 Jan 07
I appreciate a nice one from you. Good to hearing that opinion here.