is kissing your lover important in an affair?

@berry9 (590)
India
January 31, 2007 2:38am CST
To be honest iv never kissed or been kissed.Im to say that im a 100% unadultrated virgin.Most of my friends tell me that they have always kissed their partner before when they fell in love and every now and then.When I say,iv never done this,they just say im a baby like. Thing is im not used to it and my fiance never asked me nor has he ever touched my hand even really.Is it important that you kiss your man?Any of you thinking this can make the relationship better?
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@naiina (135)
• China
31 Jan 07
NOP ITS NOT NECESSARY ..n i think u should not try it before marriage if u didnt try before but i think if u love someone u want to kiss him or her..n its not necessary that u must kiss on lips u can kiss on cheeks n forehead etc
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@berry9 (590)
• India
31 Jan 07
i havent done it till now.
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@asmoyaho (177)
• Egypt
31 Jan 07
NO i donot think love happen by kiss or kiss help in the love issue but I really see that love come by eyes language and u be happy when you see you love it is really eyes not mouth or lips ooooooooh may be later haha
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• India
31 Jan 07
I think that ur fiancee too respects ur thought and u may stick to ur nature.
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• India
31 Jan 07
no i dont think that kissing a lover is that much important in one's affair............ true love comes from the heart and one should think about his or hers lovers good life .............. relationship does not become better if any one is kissed by his or hers lover.the thing which makes ones relationship better is love and this love should come from ones true heart................. so i say that kissing is not important in ones affair
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@chevez (51)
• United States
31 Jan 07
Not only important but plesantly rewarding as well.
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• Canada
31 Jan 07
Isn't this another way to express ourselves as human beings making that human connection. I've always thought that by doing so, you're showing affection without the use of words. But, If you haven't done this (kissing), I don't see this to be a problem. If you're not ready to go ahead and kiss him, and if he has not tried to hold your hand should this really be a problem. I don't think so!
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@mcarps79 (1262)
• Uganda
31 Jan 07
r u married or not....after marriage u can do anything...from kiss to everything... what a silli question this is.... so many kiss...just becoz of showing affection and love and thereself will for love.... i think i will better anser this question if i know r u married or not?
@berry9 (590)
• India
1 Feb 07
my friend i already mentioned the word,fiance.
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• India
31 Jan 07
Its not important by any rule in any law book but it happens as the two meet each other, you cant understand as I feel that u dont hav any boyfriend.
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@berry9 (590)
• India
31 Jan 07
i do.we will be married this 2007 very soon.
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@Phemzy (97)
• Nigeria
1 Feb 07
Yeah it is better to kiss your partner because it allows him/her to remember you when you are not around (i.e. missing you) through the way both of you kisses each other. Also kissing your partner show how much he/she loves you, as for me, if I don't kiss my girl that means I don't love her. Kissing is also a way of shutting men up by their girl lover, this happens when they did something wrong and you men are about to complain about what she did, women will use the power of kissing to shut him up. So it is better for you to kiss your partner if truely you loves him.
@jhoanee (598)
• Philippines
1 Feb 07
kissing is one way of expressing your love to your partner. just like taking care or being kind to him. for me kissing play an important part of let him feel that you love him. i guess your fiancee needed that so dont afraid to express what you feel for him.
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@titi88 (11)
• Nigeria
31 Jan 07
dont kiss him if u are not ready to go all the way.one things have a funny way of leading to another thing
@cuhkiz (568)
• Philippines
31 Jan 07
Yes, thats just normal and usual thing to do, showing affection but not too much overshowing coz it might end up to nothing. Me and my partner have never been kissed because we're miles apart since day one of our relationship. Thats why imagine the scene is quite exciting :) When i had some relationship before I met my wonderful partner, its normal to have a kiss. But you know, like you, you don't have to force yourself to kiss somebody or your fiance if you don't want to, Respect in the other hand should be shown by your partner. Besides, time will come to have that situation going, soon! So right now, i want to congratulate you a bit. The best thing in a relationship is not the kiss but the feelings you have for each others.
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• India
31 Jan 07
it is all upon ur trust with your lover if you like kissing your lover you can kiss him it will make you relationship grow better
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@rocknroll (1536)
• India
31 Jan 07
no i don't think itz important b'coz a true love doesn't need this..love should b in hearts n not by physical contacts ..so don't listen to ur friends..u r right..whtevr u feel correct n wht ur hrt says just do tht...don't listen to others ... have a good time..n also happy married life in advance...
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@samraf (725)
• India
31 Jan 07
well i think its not necessary that they should be kissing or sucking each other. its all happen when your body ask it for and its really good... that you are not indulge in this kind of things... because its kind off additcion and then it will lead you to for big things and it is never ending stuff.. it will always ask more from what you have done or already doing it never keep at one stage,..... so trust me try to avoid as much as possible and save it at the real time when you will be marry... i hope you got my message.. Regards.
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@umair007 (27)
• Bahrain
31 Jan 07
i don't think it is necessary in luv coz u can't see ur sister somebody kiss her & i do not read in the books also
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• India
31 Jan 07
well i don't think so that u need to kiss ur partner .
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• India
31 Jan 07
it depends on the situation
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• Pakistan
31 Jan 07
No law states that there should be a phsical relationship before marriage and its really upto a person. I'm different because I'm experienced and I have had relationships with girls for like 4-6 months and I would just hold their hands, that and nothing else and guys wouldn't believe it but I changed when my girl friend cheated me and well .... thats a completely different story. Well its really upto an individual or a couple as to how they live their life, however do let me state that holdings hands and kissing is a gesture of love and while in public people don't think of you as brothers and sisters!
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@sanjeev9 (115)
• India
31 Jan 07
no idon't think yhat kissing is inportant in an affair .it is wrong to kiss your partener to whom you love most it is right when you married that partener than it is right to kiss ..
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