Extra Marital Affair
By nzk786
@nzk786 (453)
India
January 31, 2007 7:22am CST
Do you think an Extra Marital affair is worth forgiving and forgetting?
I feel it depends on the kind of understanding you have with your spouse. A fling probably can be pardoned to some extent but a full time affair is something one can never forgive and it is better to part ways with each other. However I am sure some couples can even overcome such things keeping the marriage intact. What is your opinion?
2 responses
@EconKnowMix (858)
• Philippines
31 Jan 07
It is worth forgiving and forgetting
once you are committed not do it again
Your wife will pardon you for the first
offence but for the second you better
watch out!
@mbarryton (1872)
• United States
31 Jan 07
in my opinion it would be very hard to forgive and forget. thats not something hats is easily forgiven. when you take vows to be with someone one should stay with only that person. if you are the type of person that isn't willing to stay committed then why get married in the first place. if your in a marriage and decide you wanna cheat i say get a divorce dont go putting your better half threw emotional states like that. its totally wrong. to me adultery is adultery and once it happens there is no undoing it. could you actually start sleeping with you spouse, gf, or bf again knowing that they had been with another? i know i couldn't. if you really think about it even if you two were very happy and this happened its going to really put a strain on the relationships in alot of ways. the relationship is not gonna last very long. i say before anyone cheats they need to think long and hard about what they are fixing to destroy because once its done its done here is no going back
