Are all girls crazy?!? My gf (now my ex) is mad cause another girl liked me?

Pakistan
January 31, 2007 10:59am CST
Well we were at Starbucks having coffee and munching on some delicious cakes, the evening was perfect and when suddenly out of the blue a girl who had been staring at me for the past half an hour came to our table and looked at me in the eye whilst speaking to my gf and said "Is he taken?" and my girl gets angry and then the girl retorts, well the nice ones are always taken and walks away. My gf is looking to tearing her apart, I stop her and finally she starts yelling of me being a playboy (Honestly I never even saw the girl before!) and then storms off creating an embarassing scene in front of all the people. Now I'm very angry at her childishness and I tried talking to her but that resulted in more ... abuses ... So well I guess its over .... what do you think I should do???? I'm so confused :(
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6 responses
@loved1 (5338)
• United States
31 Jan 07
It sounds to me like your girlfriend is very insecure. At least the girl asked if you were taken instead of just assuming you were not and making her move. There are always going to be people who are attracted to you. You need to find a girlfriend who is able to trust you. Best wishes!
• Pakistan
31 Jan 07
you are quite right, I still have half a mind to dump her. but just waiting because even after all that she has done ... I can't bring myself do to something harsh all of a sudden.
@loved1 (5338)
• United States
1 Feb 07
It may be she is insecure because of something that has happened to her in her past. Everyone deserves a second chance but you need to tell her that this type of behavior is not acceptable.
• India
2 Feb 07
Hey! Ur girlfriend sounds really crazy. She's too insecure n obstinate. Had I been at her place I would simply have laughed it off. Me and my boyfriend must have had a gala time... laughing the whole nite... It was funny n not really something worth taking so seriously.. U really need to ponder over your relatuionship all over again.... I think u must.
• Pakistan
6 Feb 07
Yeah, your right, even though I love her, I hate her possesive nature! Maybe ... hmmmm .Thanks for your perspective :)
@destroyer (785)
• Pakistan
1 Feb 07
I think your GF is a bit insecure and too possessive of you! everytime another girl makes a gesture or even talks to you shes gonna get rowdy and suspicious! i'd say talk things over with her but since she aint listening to you no more i say you are better off without her! look for someone more mature and more accomodating who wouldnt throw a fit everytime another female approaches you!
• Pakistan
2 Feb 07
Yeah, I'm thinking hard about it, talk about insecurity!
@cheenlly (3485)
• Philippines
1 Feb 07
in that case if your really sincere that you really dont know that girl so you have to understand your girlfriend instead of thinking its over. You have to make her secure since she really felt bad that day. She just dont know what to react with that situation and because of her emotion she hadnt control thats why she act like that. I didnt mean you tolerate it but take it charge to experience and next time it will not happen. She is just feel angry with the girl and also get hurt and lead her to think you might doing something fishy. so talk to her when the situation is cool and then explain to her and make her feel secure.
• Pakistan
1 Feb 07
Sigh I tried talking sense into her .... again but I have failed and now she says she wants to find out that girl -.-''
@Marie2473 (8523)
• Sweden
1 Feb 07
he he he, that would have pissed me off to, i would probably have ago at the girl though and not you. =) I am just saying that it is not your fault and that the insecurity is probably within your girlfriend, maybe she has been betrayed or something in the past or maybe she is just scared of loosing you. However, this is something the 2 of you needs to talk about when you both have calmed down.. Good luck -. I am sure you will solve it!
• United States
1 Feb 07
Drop her like a bad habbit cuzshe aint worth it truly if u never seen the girl before wat the heckis her problem lol ur girlfriend is crrayz lol she asked a question give her a dang answer lol say yea he is taken and its goin stay that way like heck she is actin like a child who couldnt get the toy she wanted on christmas its sad