Guys Being Courted By Girls?
January 31, 2007 11:12am CST
Is there any guy out there who has experienced being courted by a girl? I've personally experienced it twice. The first one went well. The relationship lasted 2 years. The other one is happening right now. I don't want to hurt a girl's feelings. It's just not me. That's why when I noticed some of her actions were going that way, I immediately told her that I had a Girlfriend (even though I don't have one) in the hope that that would make her change her mind. But what happened is that, I think it challenged her more. At first, it was ok. But now, it comes to a point that she's too demanding, she's throwing tantrums here and there. Evermore persistent in her goal. I don't think I'm doing or saying anything that could mislead her feelings. I've been honest from the very start (except for the Girlfriend story). I told her that we'd be friends. I don't want to tell her to go away. I don't want anyone mad at me. I don't want to look like the villain in the eyes of other people. Should I just let it pass? I don't think telling her to go away would do any good. I even tried to find her a date, to no avail. I hope I don't come out as an arrogant, conceited, chauvinistic pig.