What is love really, do you have any answer ?
By boyzzone2007
@boyzzone2007 (143)
India
January 31, 2007 11:40am CST
All lovers share your love experience and all those who wanna be in love, predict what love could be meaning to you. In short, i'd like to know if i'm in love or just mere attraction. I've not been in love thats why i'm asking it. It seemed that i was in love but it seemed to be infatuation. So wat is love really ?
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@vivek2006 (1418)
• India
31 Jan 07
I think you wanna ask if you're in love or just infatuation. Hey you know me i'm in the same boat as you but i'm slowly beginning to feel what love is really. I'm in relation with a nice girl and looks like i'm in love with her. Though i don't wanna be in a hurry and i'll wait for a while as i'm getting this feel of love with her like i've never had before with any other girlfriends of mine. So i think love is caring for someone without expecting anything, surely i'll tel more meanings of love when i completely fall in love, which i think will happen soon.
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@vivek2006 (1418)
• India
7 Feb 07
You may be felling the same for all the girls you know but that may just be a part of your nature to look everyone with the same eye. Every relation needs time to become stronger and surely with time you'll know the different feeling between that special person and other friends.Though your feel for both friends and love would be positive but i'd say it would be slight difference in your approach towards that person.
Thats as much i can say because i'm too looking to give time to my relation to see if it really is love. Definitely when i find out about my relation i'll let you know some more about love, until then think about these lines.
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@boyzzone2007 (143)
• India
7 Feb 07
Maybe thats what love is, as u said caring for someone without expecting much. But here's the problem with me i don't expect anything from any of my girlfrnds so i'm left stranded in the middle again.
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@freezingfev (815)
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1 Feb 07
love and infatuation is 2 different end of a 100 metre looong stick!!
love is wen u feel..that u can do anything ...absolutely ANYTHING for the girl...though it wouldnt be anything wrong..bcoz if the person loves u bak..she would ask u to do anything wrong..she would care about u!!
weras infatuation is wer u ll do anything...to get the attention of the girl..!!
kkk i knw this isnt a difference between question...u are asking for real experiences...so umm let me say that...i was totally infatuated wid this really gorgeous guy....( though i strongly believed i loved him....n that he loved me back...bULLShIt!!!)
well this particular idiot..( a gorgeous idiot too!! loll) asked me to lie to ma parentz and sneak away at night..to attend this party at his friendz place..!!
no points for guessing wat i did!!
i was sooooooo excited...but trust me...it was the WORST day of ma life..!!
noo i dint do anything wrong...but ..umm letz say..everything went wrong!!
thats wen i realised i dont really love him...n niether does he lovez me bak..!
so trust me wen ii say...u ll automaticaly KNOW u love a person wen u do...its just a really good feeling....makes u want to live evryday...n u feel precious!!
not woried how u look like...or will that person like ur new dress...or ur new hair style!!
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@boyzzone2007 (143)
• India
7 Feb 07
I get what you're telling but my problem is that i don't care about how my grlfrnd dresses and the hair style and i feel this for all the girls who are my friends.
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@mahaneesh (297)
• India
31 Jan 07
The question itself is wrong.... Tell me On earth What not is LOVE??? Love is everything....!!
@boyzzone2007 (143)
• India
7 Feb 07
Love is everything when you find out that what you feel is love and not infatuation. Thats what i'm looking to find out.
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@bhaskar556 (328)
• India
7 Feb 07
it cant be said through word as it is something without which nothing is possible.
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@Eiloin (327)
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2 Feb 07
I think love is something deep, that is built through friendship, understanding and respect, and it requires to know for quite a time the other person to start to love him. The attraction is just physical, and falling in love usually starts from a mere attraction. I tell you one thing, the only way to find if somebody is or is not the love of your life is to get to know him/her almost as well as you know your brother. And you can always learn to love a person, just as you learned to love your brothers and sisters, you didn't choose them but you learned to love them.
@boyzzone2007 (143)
• India
16 Feb 07
You are very much right with your views. I know the girl and know her quite well for quite sometime now but as you said that love starts from attraction so yeah i feel she's attractive but in a dilemma if its love or not. Sure i've got one choice thats to know her as good as i know anyone else so i'll try and lets see what happens next.
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@baby_tin (52)
• Philippines
15 Feb 07
love isn't when you can't sleep, its when you want to keep your eyes open. love isn't when you keep holding on, its when you learned to let go. love isn't when you kill yoursef with jealousy, its when you understand. love isn't when you fall for someone its when you catch that person when she/he falls. love isn't when you see her/him is when you close your eyes and she/he still there. love isn't when you tell him/her you feel, its when you give up everything for his/her sake. and love isn't when you think you were blind, its when you know that you are wrong but you didn't mind.
@boyzzone2007 (143)
• India
16 Feb 07
Really nice quotes, these lines show a bit of what love feels like when you're in love. Very nice lines you just wrote, it seems like a fairytale poem. Anyway thanx for sharing your thoughts, nice job, keep it up.
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