should a girl ask a guy out

i think it is okay most especially if this is just one of those friendly dates we have. if the guy goes out with you, just dont think too much about the future of you two, just take it easy.

Who cares if it is "proper?" My hubby and I hung out a few times but I asked him out on a real date and that is what kick started our relationship. We have been married almost 9 years.

Yes, of course! If the guy is so shy that he won`t ask the girl he likes out, then she must do something ! I once saw a lady (news reporter) that even asked for marriage her boyfriend LIVE, on national channel, because he was to shy to do it.. :) So GO girls, GOOO !!! :)

Yes it is proper i flirted with my husband for almost a year all he would do was smile. (shy) I finaly just walked up to him and said are you ever going to ask me out? He said "i did not know you liked me" i said well i do pick me up tomorow at 8pm we are going to the movies :) now he's stuck with me forever.