Critical Situation. what should we do about it? our religion are different.

@samraf (725)
India
February 1, 2007 3:42am CST
well i am going through a very critical situation, we both are involve in each other from last 3 years and belive us we both are too much involve in this relation. now here is the critical points to be discusses that, we both belong from different religion and now what if we marry who should change its religion? which religion should our child will follow? should we both support eachother for their religion to follow after marriage? please help us out, we really at the point where we both have to take decision that are we going to together foreve? or will be leaving each other forever?PLease GOD give me the courage to face this situation
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@hartnsoul (558)
• Philippines
1 Feb 07
Hi! Religion is indeed a major factor in any relationship. No matter how inlove you are chances would be you'd argue coz of difference in belief. Normally women submits to the bridegroom. But now it's really a compromise between you two.
@samraf (725)
• India
1 Feb 07
i really cant come up to a decission. i am not sure what to do but thats true its hurting me every sec from now onwards.
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• Philippines
1 Feb 07
have you spoken to your partner about this issue? perhaps you can ease the trouble by going to church with her. Just try and understand where her values are coming from. This will also help strengthen your bond as you will understand each other better.
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@samraf (725)
• India
1 Feb 07
well we both are trying to speak to eachother on this topic but belive me you will laugh that we both are afraid of this talk .. may because we know this talk will create lot of problems for us.
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@hartnsoul (558)
• Philippines
1 Feb 07
children's religion may follow the mother's or depending on what you and your partner agrees on. Just remember that you both need to have strong faith for a good family foundation.
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@samraf (725)
• India
2 Feb 07
i need more responses please . help me out. i really wana know the solution of it..
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@Lydia1901 (16351)
• United States
20 Mar 07
I think if it isn't necessary, there is no need to change either of your religion. You can love each other without having to accomadate to that. Your children will have to pick one or the other. Leave the choice up to them, so you don't have to worry about it too much.