Wat u do when ur discussion is not well recieved.....??????

India
February 1, 2007 5:39am CST
It makes me angry when my discussion is not well recieved......especially a quality ones..... it makes me more angry when i see some idiotic discussion get a huge response........ does the same happen with u also??? how do u react....???
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• India
4 Feb 07
i shut down the computer & goto home.
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• India
5 Feb 07
lol.....nice......but i think u shouldn't give up n try to post more quality posts....
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• Saint Vincent And The Grenadines
4 Feb 07
i don't get mad...some ppl are just popular and have many friends who are loyal to each other so they get many replies. when i make the effort to send a quality post i just worry that i say what i want to say, and if i only get a pair or replies, if they're good, then that's good enough for me.
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• India
4 Feb 07
i think thats the profit of hving loyal frnds on mylot...........it doesn't matter if there r few in ur frnd list..........
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• Saint Vincent And The Grenadines
4 Feb 07
very true mate....it is really cool to have them
@blindedfox (3258)
• Philippines
2 Feb 07
Simple. I just move on and create another one. Your posts can't always stir people's curiosity to make them respond. =) I do admit that some well-recieved discussion here are just so-so most of the time. =/
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• India
2 Feb 07
but bothered me is that ppl r not intrested in responding to quality post........... i simply cann't understand the mentality of some user.....
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• India
2 Feb 07
i think it is a common thing now here on orkut......to which everyone is used too now
@cuddleme01 (2728)
• Philippines
4 Feb 07
i just ignore it. Though at first i get a little upset but i just put in mind that my discussion may not appeal to others. Just like when i refuse to respond to certain discussions. Then i go on with posting other discussions or responding to discussions.
• India
5 Feb 07
yes ur right....but u do when u see that discussions which r below avg. r getting huge response.....it sometimes makes me feel taht i'm wasting my time on mylot as it's not quality which is getting attention.....
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@smacksman (6074)
2 Feb 07
MyLot is sopposed to be fun! Well that's how I think of it. So don't get upset about lack of response - just keep posting and spread your words of wisdom. A good post like this one will come along now and again. Keep smiling!!
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• India
2 Feb 07
thnx 4 ur response sir....
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• India
1 Feb 07
hi again!!...ofcourse u know how i react wen this happens to me!!...i make a pact with my friends..:D
• India
1 Feb 07
i told u that this pact is gr8 step from ur part keep going this way.......... u will earn huge....
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@fabwisp (1328)
1 Feb 07
I dont take it personally. Just because I find a topic interesting doesnt mean everyone will. Also I think that it depends on who is around when you put it on. Lifes too short to worry about it. And besides I'd rather have no responses than loads of really silly unhelpful ones as i have seen on some threads. As your rating gets higher as well, more people will look at your posts as they will recognise you. good luck n dont lose heart. xxxx
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• India
1 Feb 07
i hve marked ur words thnx 4 the advice..............
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• Australia
1 Feb 07
It happens to all of us, but what is the use of getting angry? The best thing you can do if you want to take part in quality discussions is to post responses to some of the quality postings. When you post to some of the deeper thinker's postings, you will get yourself known. Make these people your friends and you will find interaction with them, but most will not accept you as friend until you have posted good responses.
• India
1 Feb 07
ok i will keep this in my mind...........
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@emquinsat (1059)
• Philippines
1 Feb 07
Well i don't get much response in my discussions as well. I makes me feel as though I'm not making sense. But hey, something interesting for us may not be interesting for others. I got a lot of disappointments when it comes to creating discussions so i just post.
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• India
2 Feb 07
is posting better option than starting a discussion........ i think posting makes a better reputation of u...........
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@arohi86 (24)
• India
1 Feb 07
i think it's obvious that initially u'll get angry for low reponse....,but it's life u must carry on just try to good work....u'll be rewarded automatically.........
• India
1 Feb 07
thnx arohi 4 ur response....
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• India
1 Feb 07
ur welcome anshul........
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• India
4 Feb 07
Hey dear i feel the same regarding those ediotic discussions.. i dont understand the mentality of the people out here.. are they only interested in making money ??
• India
5 Feb 07
same here buddy.....
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@manong05 (5030)
• Philippines
1 Feb 07
It's normal to react the way you reacted but as soon as you get over that feeling the better, other wise it will take your mind away from concentrating on other good topics to be posted. Most mylotians have been through the same frustration and they have learned to live with it. Just keep on posting quality discussions and respond the best way you could. Cheers.
• India
1 Feb 07
thnx for the advice buddy.......... i'll keep this in my mind.....
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• India
1 Feb 07
Even it makes me angry too but my dear friend not over others but myself. That's so because I give a thought that my discussion is not fully loaded to have lots of responses. You are quite right that some idiotic discussions do get lots of responses but it is the way of life. Keep trying and do post interesting discussions. This one is good.
• India
1 Feb 07
thnx....
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