how can a man break his words so easily

China
February 1, 2007 8:29am CST
How can a man break his words so easily. The guy is living with me, he once promised that he wl work hard for me, and wl not do other things wasting of time when working. He was nice in the first few day, but after that, he came back to his old-beings. When i asked him, why he never concentrated in his work, he chose to agure with me. He never think it is coz i am care for him, when i blamed him. And if i stopped to do that one day, i stopped to love him. Why a man break his words so easily, coz he dosen't love me sincerely, or coz it is impossible to change a man, no matter how much he loves you??? Are you trying to change yourself for lover?? Are you working hard for the man or the women you loved. Wl you break your words oftenly to your lover???
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6 responses
• India
9 Feb 07
i can not break my words . yes i am working hard for the woman i loved .
@rlshaw (871)
• United States
3 Feb 07
That is a good question I wish I knew the answer... Sometimes I think they just tell you what you want to here and make some sort of effort but just go back to the way things are..I'm not sure if they think you had that conversation or what.. when you figure out men..let me know :)
@k3tk3t (3128)
• Philippines
2 Feb 07
well men ususally just say it but mostly they didnt mean it....
@ilunice (947)
• Netherlands
3 Feb 07
Breaking ones words depends on the basis on which the promise(s) was made. sometimes, we all have itching ears and love to hear some particular things. For anyone that is out to exploit on the basis of relationship, it will be easy for the person to tell the other person what he or she love to hear. In this case, the words become void of sincerity. So, never let love or infatuation blindfold your sense of reasoning. Be realistic and factual with yourself when about to enter a relationship.
@anjoks (2080)
• Philippines
1 Feb 07
Do you still love him, despite of everything? .. I can tell it's a "yes". . I can relate to you my friend, i just broke up with my boyfriend and the reason why is because of his so many broken-promises to me. That made me leave him. I still love him but i've to do it cause i got tired of his excuses, the fights. . I gave him all the chances he can get in this world. I was not the only one who changed, it must be both parties you know. Patience, that's very important. But please don't get me wrong here. This is my case, my situation and yours is totally different from me. . . Do everything to save your relatiosnhip with him. Talk to him nicely as possible, explain to him what's been going on, all the workd. I'm sure everything will be patched up between the two of you. Goodluck! Hoping for the best, girl. :-}
• Philippines
3 Feb 07
,,it somewhat like promises that are made to be broken..but if he do love you then he will do whatever he says as a man but if he wont, he then doesn't love you..simple as that..